Friday, June 12, 2009

How to communicate with a loved person who has died

It is so painful to lose a much loved person who was an important part of your life. Although it cannot bring them back, it is still very comforting to be able to communicate with them again.

One way to do this is to sit in a comfortable chair and imagine your loved one sitting in another chair opposite you. Mentally tell them what you want them to know. When you do this, you attract their attention. They can use the image you provide to help them focus and speak to you through it. If you have difficulty hearing them speak to you, first imagine what they might say. Keep listening. When they say something unexpected, something you didn’t imagine them saying, you will know you have really communicated with them. If it helps, before you begin remember other conversations with them, when they were alive. Notice how you follow these conversations in your mind. This will give you a guideline to help you hold a psychic conversation with them. Then try again.

We have met a mother and daughter who used to go to the cemetery to visit the grave of their husband and father, trying to feel close to him. What they didn’t realise was that he went with them to the cemetery, riding in the back seat of the car and trying to make contact with them. He would have been very pleased if they had instead, tried this way of communicating with him.

Having communicated with hundreds of people who have died, we can tell you with complete certainty that they continue to live, but without the physical body, and they have the same characteristics and interests which they had while they were alive. People do not turn into angels when they have died, in fact angels are a different species of being. Your loved one is the same person that s/he was when s/he was alive in the physical body, and is not only still interested in the same things, and still loving you and the other special people they have had to leave behind, but also meeting friends and family members who were already in the life between lives state, and also having new dimensions of life and activity to explore. There is no heaven, and there is no hell. Instead there are new opportunities for creativity, expansion, development, learning, and loving.

There are plenty of people who will be pleased at least that there is no hell! The nearest we have seen is that people who have done very bad things when they were alive in the physical body, carry the wounds of those bad deeds, and many of them experience ‘nightmares’ of horror, until they ‘run off’ their legacy of violations, and become ready to change their ways, and to receive healing for the bad things they had done.

If you now feel very stirred up about your own ‘bad deeds’, we want to very much encourage you to ask God for healing for all the bad deeds you have loaded on yourself. It is extremely important and very, very essential for your spiritual and overall wellbeing to be honest with yourself and to give yourself fully to God, God loves you, and very much wants you to heal and is there for you. No-one can make this journey for you, and the sooner you start, the better for you when you come to the end of your current life, it will help you also to stop whatever you are still doing you shouldn’t do. Please be brave, embrace your basic goodness, your basic nature is truly beautiful and holy, it is worth it, we promise, it is always the best journey, the journey to healing all the misdeeds, and indeed, all the pains and sorrows you carry whether they are self imposed or received from others. Be brave, God is very much waiting for you to receive all the healing and all the cleaning up of your life that you need, for God loves you most dearly. Please, try and never give up you will be so pleased, so relieved one day for having been kind to yourself and taken that big step now, and not later when you have moved on from this life.

Our desire and intentions are to encourage everyone to receive all the help and healing they need for their welfare, and if we have filled your mind with questions and worries about your lifestyle, and what it will mean for your conditions in the life between life states, please contact us, and we will offer you support and encouragement to heal your pain and clean up your lifestyle. We believe in you, we believe in your basic goodness, your inner divinity, and we assure you everything can be healed, and you can begin that healing journey now, you don’t need to wait.

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39 comments:

  1. I have recently communicated with someone who has died, but I didn't hear actual words, I just FELT the love and warmth and gratitude from them - is this normal to "feel" what they are trying to communicate rather than "hear"?

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  2. Yes, this is normal, and so reassuring that your loved one still exists and can reach out to you

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  3. My Mother died when i was 2 years old.. i'm now 14 and i don't remember anything about her, not one thing, no photos, videos, etc.. How do i communicate with her?

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  4. We are very sorry for your loss. It must be hard, thinking about your mother without remembering anything. You can still try the method of communication given above. Your mother would surely have looked something like you, so imagine an image of her, the best you can manage. As she responds to your efforts to communicate, and I have her now telling me she is very keen to do so, you may find the image you have made, changes, as she takes it and makes it her own.

    We wish you well with your efforts

    Blessings,
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  5. My grandfather passed away a little less than a month ago and I am struggling greatly with the loss of him. I just started trying to figure out if there is a way i could communicate with him because him and I had a close relationship. I would really appreciate it if u could help me out on how to talk to him.

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  6. It must be hard for you right now, missing your grandfather. We suggest that you try the communication method given here, it's the easiest one we know. Also, if you remember your dreams, you may find that you are spending time with your grandfather in the inner dimensions, and any such dreams are likely to be real experiences, so long as they fit your assessment that they match the way you and your grandfather always related.

    Let us know how you get on

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  7. hace dos dias fallecio mi ex novio, se suicido y me encantaria saber si su alma esta descansando en paz, si esta bien, si esta triste... me siento muy mal y en lo unico q pienso es en estar con él, yo se q jamas dejaria a mis seres queridos pero quiero saber la forma en q el responda a mis preguntas... mi unico miedo de tener una converzacion con el es q no lo deje descansar en paz, q lo traiga a una dimension en la q se encuentre solo y q se convierta en algo malo... solo quiero hacerle saber q su mama esta muy mal y q yo no le dije cuanto lo qria porq siempre penso q jugaba c el.

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  8. You can translate here: http://translate.google.com/

    This is a very sad situation, and we are full of sympathy for you. There are many people on the inner dimensions who are like the caring doctors and nurses in physical hospitals and help those who, like your
    ex-fiancé, have committed suicide. In fact, they are there to help everyone who dies in tragic circumstances. We suggest you support their good work with your love and prayers, and ask for healing for your ex-fiancé and yourself. You can also ask for healing as explained on our Knol: ‘Spiritual Healing’
    http://knol.google.com/k/the-spiritual-mastery-path/spiritual-healing/g97zzaljlsxu/6#view

    In time, when your ex-fiancé has recovered for a while, you will be able to try to communicate with him, and tell him everything you are feeling and thinking. You do not need to wait to make peace with him, however, and to put down the burden you are carrying of things you wish you had said, and wish to tell him now, and find comfort for yourself, as God is able to bring about such blessings if you ask God directly for the healing, peace, and solace you need. So tell God what you wish to tell your ex-fiancé, and ask for healing for all your regrets, and be open to receive the healing God will send you. Then, when your ex-fiancé is ready to communicate with you, it can be a communication of love and understanding because you will not then feel any concern that you will burden him with your pain and sorrow, having already asked for healing for your grief.

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  9. Hello there:
    My father died 2 years ago , I was his only child and we were very close. I know he has been trying to communicate with me several times in several ways but I can seem to get to him or even remember exactly what he says
    Are there other methods you can publish . He usually comes to me by dreams or when he knows I'm about to fall asleep and whispers in my left ear but I want to try other methods ... Imagining him is really hard .. Are there other ways. My father was a very spiritual man and I know how badly he wants me to understand , I really try talking to him but always end up getting emotional which is what he always avoided . Please help me better understand what he try so hard to say . Thank you for giving me hope on this subject because just reading the comments makes me realize how many people are going through the same thing .

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  10. We are very sorry for your pain. We have presented here the easiest way to communicate with a loved one who has passed to the other side that we know. We feel sure that if you persist with this one method, and with your father so keen to help, in time you will make the connection with him that you long for. It is normal to get emotional, so allow your feelings to flow. Give yourself longer to sit with your feelings first, and then try to talk, when the flow of strong feelings have calmed down.

    We wish you every success
    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  11. Thank you I will definately not give up hope ! Thank you for your kind words!

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  12. Hi all,

    Im 19 I lost my mum when i was 13,I was indeed very close to her but right now for some reason i forgot how she sounded..I miss her so much.I only have photos of her and the room to myself where she use to be whn she was healthy and not well.Sometimes she comes into my dream,and whenever she does Ialways end up in tears when i wake up.I would really wish to somehow feel her.she is such a strong a beautiful person i would ant to be just like her.How do i feel her.But what I am afraid of is,I might not reach her.Just for once I would love to talk to her just to tell her how much I miss her..

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  13. We are so sorry for your pain, Gmaya. It is very hard to lose such a wonderful person as your mother. But we are encouraged for you, that you have dreams about her, because one of the ways people keep in touch with those they love is through dreams. They are real, and in those dreams you are spending time with your mother. So be encouraged by the dreams to try this method of communication we have explained. Your chances of success are very high. When you imagine your mother sitting opposite you, let your feelings flow, and tell her how you are feeling, she will understand if it all comes out in a rush. In time, when you have said all you can say, you may well be able to ‘hear’ what she has to say to you.

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  14. I lost the love of my life three months ago in a motor vehicle accident. We had so much together, not only a physical but a spiritual relationship. I know he is with me, I have tried to communicate with him how do I know for sure if he is communicating with me or I am having a two sided conversation with myself? How can I communicate with him in my dreams?

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  15. We feel for your terrible loss, and understand how much you want to communicate with your loved one. If you relax your worries about the communications and allow your loved one the space to send you messages while you remain calm and confident and receptive, then your loved one will have a chance to communicate things which while entirely fitting with their personality, will also surprise you as you will know you hadn't thought it up. Then you will know your communications are truly coming from him. You do not have to try to communicate with him in your dreams, this will happen naturally. If you have trouble remembering your dreams, you can try setting your alarm 10 minutes early, so you have 10 minutes to lie quietly in bed remembering your dreams before you have to jump up and start your day.

    We wish for you every success with your communications

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  16. I lost my mom on December 26, 2010. And that was on my 25th Birthday also, she was at church with my sister when it happend, she had a cardiac arrest. I got there minutes after it happend and rode with her in the ambulance they try to resusitate her for 2 hour and a half. I was the youngest of my brother and my two sisters, and we were very close. I talk to her all the time ever since it happend. And she has come in my dreams twice and has answers me some questions I had and tells me not to be sad. That if I could just knew how peaceful and beutiful is like there. My question is how can I keep her coming in my dreams??? Because its only been 3 weeks since she past away and I dont want her to stop over the years...I love seeing her and feeling her Hugs and Kisses and Love!!!And I have ask my brother and my sisters and they haven't been able to dream with her???

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  17. That was a tragic way to lose your mother, Elba. We feel for your pain. We can tell you that your dreams are real, and your mother is really spending time with you when you meet her in your dreams. Some people, like you, just naturally have good recall of their dreams, and some don’t. Your mother will be meeting your brother and sisters in their dreams too, they just don’t remember. There is every reason to think that your dreams with your mother will continue for the rest of your life. Just as you often plan ahead when you meet someone in your daily life, you can encourage such dreams by thinking about meeting your mother, and what you want to say to her, when you go to bed and while you are drifting off to sleep. And you might want to make a bit more effort to remember your dreams each morning, by thinking about what you dreamed before you start thinking about the day ahead, so you can recapture the special moments which you share with your mother. We wish you every success.

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  18. My husband passed away March 7, 2011 in a car accident. We do not know why he didn't see the truck in front of him. I have so much guilt because him and I fought a LOT and I am scared that he died thinking I hated him. When a friend died tragically in 1993, he came to me and told me he was okay in a dream and that it was an accident that killed him. I want so bad to be able to communicate with my husband and let him know how much I really loved him. We were together for 14 years. His kids miss him very much also.

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  19. We are sorry for your tragic loss. We can tell you that your husband is sad, and thinks that he has let you all down. We encourage you to try communicating with him, using the method given here

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  20. I recently lost my father, all I can say is that it brings tears every time I think of him.
    He was a very strong and powerful man born in 1934, my husband is very much like him now he was born 1954, me I am the 4th of 5 kids born in 1964. 20years between my husband and father and 10years between my husband and me 2010 does this mean anything??? why now do I think this way is my father trying to maybe tell me he got an extra year???

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  21. We are very sorry for your loss, your father was a strong support for you. We do not think in terms of the significance of numbers, but if it means something to you, then there will be a reason. We hope you will try to communicate with your father using the method explained here, and then perhaps you will find out more from him. we wish you every success with your efforts to communicate. Your father is willing to try.

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  22. Hey. I would like to know how to comunicate witg people who had past. I lost my mother 14 months ago. Since then I can still feel her with me, sometimes stronger then other. My husband had past too. He was missing for 4 months before we found out he had past. But I could also feel a presens, wich is different from my mothers. Can I try to talk to them? Some of my family are blessed to see and comunicate to them. But i can only feel them. Even before my mother had past. How can i improve my ability?

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  23. I lost my father almost 5 years ago and I really would like to communicate with him. I am a very open person, but the type that cannot be hypnotized or able to give up control. Do you have any advice for me? I am the executor of his will and want to know if he is happy with what I am trying to do.

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  24. In answer to the person who posted on 5 Nov: We understand your desire to communicate. Yes, you can try to talk to your mother and your husband using the method given here. Your ability will improve with practice. We wish you every success

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  25. In answer to the person who posted on 6 Nov: It must be hard for you to lose your father.

    This method is perfectly safe for you to try to communicate with your father, and we wish you every success.

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  26. My lover/bestfriend, Mitchel.. passed away in October of '09.
    I've tried imagining, and talking to him alot, and I never really get anything.
    Am I doing something wrong? Can you give me any advice to help me reach him?
    I love and miss him so much, It would be SO nice to hear from him.

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  27. Hello. A man that I loved and was good friends with died violently about three years ago. There was conflicting views as to whether he committed suicide or was killed. I know that his spirit passed through my home one night shortly afterwards while I was up late studying: a stereo came on and started playing by itself, twice, and a framed piece of art fell from a securely attached nail in the wall. I continue to miss him and to be bothered by not knowing what happened. How can I come to know how he died?

    Thank you,
    Lisa

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  28. To the person who asked about Mitchel. Have you tried the method we explain here exactly as given? To begin communicating, you do need peace and quiet, and a concentration which only comes from cutting out all distractions. Remember to give Mitchel the chance to say something to you. At first just imagine what he might say to you, and hopefully one day you will 'hear' a response you didn't imagine. Then you will know that came from him.

    We wish you every success


    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  29. Hi Lisa

    How awful to lose a friend that way. We are sorry for your pain.

    It is possible that your friend is not yet ready to face for himself, the circumstances of his death. If you try to communicate with him, we suggest you talk about happier times for some while first, perhaps for several months, before asking him about this traumatic event of his death.

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  30. My Brother has been missing for 2 months. We think he was killed. We have not found his body yet, and I want to contact him to try to find his location. We have had 3 psychics working on the case, and we know them to be the real deal. They say foul play was involved and that he was murdered and thrown over a mountain. How can I connect with him?

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  31. We are very sorry to hear about your brother. Instead of trying to communicate directly with him, we suggest that you use the method given here and try to communicate with his guardian angel, who will be calmer and more readily available at this difficult time. Our thoughts are with you.

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  32. Hi, my dad had a heart attack on dec 8th , my brother and boyfriend found him on the hallway floor struggling to breathe and called 911 , he died before I made it to the hospital :( I got there within 15 minutes of getting the phone call that he was on his way to the hospital and it was still too late. My dad had just turned 50 in October and he worked out everyday and was healthier then anyone of us. I am so devastated that he is gone and I didn't get to say goodbye, I always thought I had more time with my dad. I feel so bad that I wasn't there with him when he died and that I didn't get to say goodbye. I haven't had any dreams about him and I haven't felt his presence or anything :( I keep asking for a sign that he's ok and I get nothing. I wish I would have been able to tell him how much I loved him and how much he meant to me, I really hope he knew. I just want to see him one more time and I just want to know he's ok. I want to know what happen and why he died.... What went wrong dad? I want to know if it was a heart attack because he went to the dr. Regularly and what kind of factor is this that just leaves people misdiagnosed ????? I want my dad back Nd I want closure....please help me. Jen (gwendole)

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  33. What a tragic end to your father's life, Jen. We are full of sympathy for you.

    It can be hard at first to communicate with someone who died so dramatically. Keep trying to contact him, using the method given. In time, when he has calmed down, and you have too, it will be more likely that you will be able to sense his presence, and 'hear' what he has to say. Then, every minute of practise will have been worthwhile to prepare you for communicating with him.

    We wish you every success

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  34. I lost my ex boyfriend 6months ago.... although Im married and really much in love...I loved my ex boyfriend dearly. He died loving me and I just want him to know how much I love and miss him. I think of him daily, everything reminds me of him. I just cant let him go yet, what can I do?

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  35. We encourage you to try the method of communication given here, and wish you every success with it

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  36. My husband was killed Jan 16 2012, I have been trying to communicate with him and find out what exactly happened to him and to find out if he is ok but I havent felt him near. Does he hear me when I talk? When I cry out to him? I am pregnant with his son, he is due in March and he will not be here to meet him. I have truly lost the most important person in my life, He was only 21 years old just getting started, we got married in April 2011 and bought our first house in Jan 2011 we were as happy as could be with everything and we were excited to be parents but he was killed and I dont know how to communicate, how to get answers

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  37. How very sad. We feel for you. Your husband is, understandably, also very agitated at the moment, which will make it hard for you to communicate until you can both calm down a bit, which we realise will be very difficult.

    We suggest you keep trying this method given, though, and stay as calm as you can while you try, until you manage to receive a response.

    Our thoughts and blessings go out to you

    The Spiritual Teachers

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  38. Ive tried for the past 5 weeks to try to communicate, is it harder to communicate because his life was taken? Will he find peace?

    "My husband was killed Jan 16 2012, I have been trying to communicate with him and find out what exactly happened to him and to find out if he is ok but I havent felt him near. Does he hear me when I talk? When I cry out to him? I am pregnant with his son, he is due in March and he will not be here to meet him. I have truly lost the most important person in my life, He was only 21 years old just getting started, we got married in April 2011 and bought our first house in Jan 2011 we were as happy as could be with everything and we were excited to be parents but he was killed and I dont know how to communicate, how to get answers"

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  39. We are so sorry that our given method is not working for you yet. Yes, it is harder to communicate with someone whose life ended tragically, unfortunately. However, we can assure you that your husband will find peace, as he, and you, come to terms with this tragic event. In the meantime, you might find it comforting to visit a psychic, and we hope your friends and contacts can recommend a good psychic in your home city

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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