Friday, June 12, 2009

How to communicate with a loved person who has died

It is so painful to lose a much loved person who was an important part of your life. Although it cannot bring them back, it is still very comforting to be able to communicate with them again.
 
One way to do this is to sit in a comfortable chair and imagine your loved one sitting in another chair opposite you. Mentally tell them what you want them to know. When you do this, you attract their attention. They can use the image you provide to help them focus and speak to you through it. If you have difficulty hearing them speak to you, first imagine what they might say. Keep listening. When they say something unexpected, something you didn’t imagine them saying, you will know you have really communicated with them. If it helps, before you begin remember other conversations with them, when they were alive. Notice how you follow these conversations in your mind. This will give you a guideline to help you hold a psychic conversation with them. Then try again.

We have met a mother and daughter who used to go to the cemetery to visit the grave of their husband and father, trying to feel close to him. What they didn’t realise was that he went with them to the cemetery, riding in the back seat of the car and trying to make contact with them. He would have been very pleased if they had instead, tried this way of communicating with him.

We know that you will be grieving badly, and we do also offer a free spiritual healing method, which we explain for you here: http://faithlovenz.blogspot.co.nz/p/free-spiritual-healing.html


Having communicated with hundreds of people who have died, we can tell you with complete certainty that they continue to live, but without the physical body, and they have the same characteristics and interests which they had while they were alive. People do not turn into angels when they have died, in fact angels are a different species of being. Your loved one is the same person that s/he was when s/he was alive in the physical body, and is not only still interested in the same things, and still loving you and the other special people they have had to leave behind, but also meeting friends and family members who were already in the life between lives state, and also having new dimensions of life and activity to explore. There is no heaven, and there is no hell. Instead there are new opportunities for creativity, expansion, development, learning, and loving.

There are plenty of people who will be pleased at least that there is no hell! The nearest we have seen is that people who have done very bad things when they were alive in the physical body, carry the wounds of those bad deeds, and many of them experience ‘nightmares’ of horror, until they ‘run off’ their legacy of violations, and become ready to change their ways, and to receive healing for the bad things they had done.

If you now feel very stirred up about your own ‘bad deeds’, we want to very much encourage you to ask God for healing for all the bad deeds you have loaded on yourself. It is extremely important and very, very essential for your spiritual and overall wellbeing to be honest with yourself and to give yourself fully to God, God loves you, and very much wants you to heal and is there for you. No-one can make this journey for you, and the sooner you start, the better for you when you come to the end of your current life, it will help you also to stop whatever you are still doing you shouldn’t do. Please be brave, embrace your basic goodness, your basic nature is truly beautiful and holy, it is worth it, we promise, it is always the best journey, the journey to healing all the misdeeds, and indeed, all the pains and sorrows you carry whether they are self imposed or received from others. Be brave, God is very much waiting for you to receive all the healing and all the cleaning up of your life that you need, for God loves you most dearly. Please, try and never give up you will be so pleased, so relieved one day for having been kind to yourself and taken that big step now, and not later when you have moved on from this life.

Our desire and intentions are to encourage everyone to receive all the help and healing they need for their welfare, and if we have filled your mind with questions and worries about your lifestyle, and what it will mean for your conditions in the life between life states, please contact us, and we will offer you support and encouragement to heal your pain and clean up your lifestyle. We believe in you, we believe in your basic goodness, your inner divinity, and we assure you everything can be healed, and you can begin that healing journey now, you don’t need to wait.




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88 comments:

  1. My best friend/strength/confidence (my nana) left me on december 13th right before Christmas. She has 6 kids. 16 grand kids and 4 great grand children. She was everyones rock through every high and low. I love and miss her every single day. She showed me the meaning of true love my whole 24 years of living. Her death was unexpected. Christmas wasnt the same without her. I regret not going to visit her more than i did. I love her more than anything and anyone. She was only 76 years old and was always healthy she passed away a week after open heart surgery. Im not sure if shes been trying to contact me but since shes been gone ive had a few scary dreams about her. One where i woke up terrified. Why?? The light in the bathroom has turned on and off while my younger brother was showering. The sink turned on by itself the second i said her name out loud a day after the light incident. Are these indeed signs from her? If it isnt too much to ask can you contact her for me. Any feedback would be so wonderful. She was really an angel on earth and i miss her. I tell her that everyday

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    1. It is very distressing to lose someone you love so much so suddenly. We send you our sympathy.

      A sudden death like this can arouse fears of dying suddenly yourself, causing the scary dreams, but there is no need for you to worry, you have a long life ahead of you.

      We don’t give psychic readings but we have explained the method of communication in this post just for people like you, and we encourage you to try it. We wish you every success

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  2. Have you ever heard of astral projection ??

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    1. Yes, indeed we have Kayne. Have you been experiencing it?

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  3. Hello,
    My Mom Carmela passed away very suddenly on New Years Day, and it has been devastating to me. We talked every day and she moved down here to be close to me and her two grandchildren. She loved them so dearly, and it was them that gave her a sense of purpose. I miss her with every waking moment on my life, I can't go a minute without thinking of our Nammie. She was pretty ill with various ailments so I am glad that she is no longer in pain. But I just want to see her, kiss her, laugh with her. I think I got some signs when she first passed, and so did my husband and Dad. I haven't gotten anything in over two weeks. I talk to her every day and try to visualize, meditate...anything to get her to come to me. I know she has to be around us, she loved us more than anything in the world. I just need to figure out the best way to communicate with her. Do you have any suggestions? Can you feel anything or connect with her as you read this? I just want to know she is still with me. I know I don't need to worry about her, that she is fine. I miss her and love her so much, I am so heartbroken.
    Thank you,
    Julia

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    1. Your mother is still with you, Julia, and we suggest you try the method of communication given in this post. We wrote it for people just like you, and wish you every success with it.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  4. My dad passed away in 2007. Still struggling with it. I used to see him from time to time or dream of him. Since his passing i have had two children that i wish he met. This makes it harder for me. The last dream i had of him he seemed bothered by me and said i shouldnt be "here" wherever here was. That was about four years ago. I feel i have disappointed him and has no desire to communicate with me. Ive tried but nothing. Is there any way to communicate? Thanks and sorry to bother you

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    1. How sad for you that your efforts to communicate are going nowhere. We wrote the method given in this post so that people could talk to their loved ones themselves, but it always takes two, doesn't it. We suggest that instead you try to communicate with another family member who has passed on and knows your father well, to find out how your father is doing, using the method given.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  5. Hi. My dad passed away in 2007. I used to dream or see him from time to time. Just a glimpse of his face like a flash. Now nothing. Ive tried everything i know to talk to him but nothing. The last time i dreamt of him was about 4 yrs ago. He seemed annoyed with me like he didnt want me there and even said something like i shouldnt be here or i couldbt stay. Wish i could remember but that was it. Nothing since then. Ive begged, imagined and just talked and cried and still nothing. I have since had two children that he obv is not here for and wish just for a sign or that he could let me know hes seen them and if ive disappointed him or something im some way. It hurts so bad because he was my world. He was just the most giving amazing smartest man i knew.

    Thanks and sorry to bother you

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  6. 35 years ago, when I was young, I met a girl. She was a college student with aspirations and I was a high school graduate with a lousy full time job. I fell in love with her, and I know that she cared for me. But I knew in my heart that she was out of my league because our paths were so different. Then for an unknown reason, we became negative to one another and I never saw her again. I always regretted not swallowing my pride and removing the negativity. But at the time I felt it was hopeless. I took to heart her academics and aspirations. Years later, I swallowed my pride and found a way to enter and get through college myself - eventually with two masters degrees. With the internet, I was eventually able to discover parts of the country she had lived in. But the closest I ever was to finding her current location was when I found her obituary 30 years after I had last seen her. It probably seems crazy, but I can't describe how deeply I miss her. I've had a few dreams since that she was in, only one of which I can remember any details. She was on her way somewhere with another girl. But she stopped to sit and chat with me for a moment. All I was able to say to her before i awoke was "I've missed you so much". It was such a relief. But when I awoke, I wondered if my relief was my own imagination. Could it really have been her? When people leave our world, do they get to learn the true feelings of those they've left behind?

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    1. You have shared such a touching story. True love knows no boundaries, and when it is not fulfilled in one life, it looks for fulfilment in another life, so your love has a future.

      In dreams we can visit the environments in which those who have passed on, now live, and have very real meetings with them, so your dreams are of real moments spent with your love. And yes, when people pass on, they learn a very great deal about the true feelings of those they have left behind.

      We would like to encourage you to try the method of communication given in this post, so you can spend more time with your loved one.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  7. Hi,
    I was just wondering through sites to see how communicate with spirits as my mum had a miscarriage with my twin sister (I was born 3 months early but she only miscarriaged with my sister two months before I was born) my mum said when I was younger I could connect with my sister talking to her and could visibly see her, my memory of them events is quite blurry, I do feel like a part of me is missing and I have a lot of love for her, do you believe that I could ever connect to her properly again?

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    1. Hi Leah

      We would like to encourage you to try the method of communication given in this post to reach out to your twin sister, and we anticipate that you will be successful since you have such a strong loving bond with her.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  8. My dad past away 3 weeks ago and I try to communicate with him but it dont work what should I do

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    1. Have you tried the method given in this post? It was written just for people like you. Sometimes it can be a bit harder to communicate when you are not able to be calm, or if the person who passed away has a lot to do to come to terms with their passing, so sometimes you need to be patient and just keep trying every day until it works.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  9. Hi there, my mom passed away almost two weeks ago. I was with her in the hospital almost everyday. It was unexpected and didn't know how bad off she was. I held her hand as she took her last breath, and felt her spirit go though me. I also was in the room alone when she was already passed away and I felt her and my dad who also passed away giving me a big hug. I have been asking myself why she had to go so soon. I feel her everywhere, smell her perfume she put on when she was alive (sometimes the smell is overpowering) she plays with my almost 3 month old at 2am every night for at least 30mins. My baby will be laughing and cooing away. I have been since-ing that she wants to tell me something like she has a message for me that's very important. I also feel that she wants me to find something that was hers. Maybe hidden away? I need you help and it is very well appreciated.

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    1. Hi Christina

      What a wonderful connection you have with your mother already.

      I am sorry, we don't give psychic readings, however we offer the method given in this post to help people like you with their communications with their loved ones in spirit. Give it a try! :) With your mother it will most likely work extremely well.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  10. Tomorrow will be a month since I lost my beautiful husband. We shared 24 years together, and two children. He had been sick, but neither one of us would allow ourselves to believe for one minute that he wouldn't make it. Then in a snap he was gone. I had to make a choice, one that has haunted me since. In my heart I believe he was gone before I made that choice that I didn't want to make. Though at the time I believed it to be the only and right thing to do, I now second guess that decision. I have felt him around me, though it has been a couple weeks since that last feeling. Why would I feel him so much right after his death, but then suddenly he is gone.
    I also grew up with a step-dad who was a medium and I have never been doubtful in my beliefs of spiritualism, reincarnation, etc., but since my husband died, I doubt every thought I ever had. I miss him so much and I do talk to him. I tell him how loved he is, I encourage our kids to talk to him too and they do. I tell them he is around us and needs our words of love just as much as he did in life. How can I ever get over the feeling that I caused my husbands death? That the choice I made was wrong? I am tormented daily by it, even though another part of me feels he was gone before that decision was made. Can I keep a relationship with him despite the lack of his physical body? Does he still love us? Does he still feel our love? So much I need to know. I will also try the method you have posted here. As I said, I talk to him all the time and I had a couple weeks of contact, but now it is gone. Thank you for this site also. I am going to read through it all in hopes that I too can learn to communicate with my lost love.

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    1. We understand how much you are suffering, and your grief is still so fresh and very painful.

      Love and relationships do continue beyond death, so you can be reassured about this.

      Many people experience guilt when a loved one dies. We suggest you ask for healing for this terrible feeling. If you look in the main menu of this blog, you will find our page: 'Free Spiritual Healing'.

      Also, keep trying the method given to help you communicate with your husband. We wish you every success,

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  11. I don't know that I will ever get through this loss. I have been away from home for a week and will return tomorrow. My children are both anxious and nervous about going home to a house that doesn't feel like home anymore. Our pillar is gone and a lifetime is a long time without him. We try to smile and enjoy life, but how can we when the pain is so dense? We miss his smile, his laugh, even him getting after the kids. They would give anything for dad to yell at them one more time. Nothing holds the same meaning anymore. Without him, things seem irrelavent. No one will love my children the way we did. No one will revel in their lives, their successes, even their smiles. No one can share my life the way he shared it with me, watching each other grow as a couple and as individuals. Loving each other all the way through despite our faults. I never thought I would lose him and now I have, and I have lost myself right along with him.

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    1. It is very hard to try to cope with immense grief on your own, so we hope you have already found grief support in your community. If not, then please go looking for a support group.

      There is no point at this stage, trying to smile through the tears, instead if you allow your pain to be fully expressed, your feelings will eventually change of their own accord.

      We hope that you will also be able to communicate with your very much loved partner, however if that is too difficult for you at the moment, you might find some comfort in visiting a medium in your city, perhaps your friends can recommend someone

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  12. How does a spouse passed on feel about their living partner moving on in a romantic relationship? How does that work at the end of life when a twice married twice widowed person dies and meets their two husbands? Do they see and hear everything that their living partner is doing? I have a friend who lost her husband 9 months ago and she feels strange about entering into a new romantic/sexual relationship. Hope this isn't too silly to ask.

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    1. This is a very good question.

      As with all relationships, there are a range of responses from the loved one who has passed on, because we are all so unique. Most , however, do understand that their partner needs to have company in their life, and some even encourage a new relationship.

      They are usually too busy with their life between lives to watch everything their partner does, but instead communicate and visit like any other relative who lives elsewhere.

      At the end of life, the twice widowed person will have a greater longing to see one of their partners than the other, so will spend more time with them, however all love relationships are forever, so in the life between lives, we also meet loves from other lives. Our souls are so expansive that we can, when we are ready to do so, take more than one image of ourselves, to spend time with several loved ones simultaneously.

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  13. Last night I stood by my husbands chair, I stopped and lay my hand on the head rest.... looking up at our large portrait on the wall I broke into tears. I spoke out loud, and asked my spirit guides to relay my message to my husband if he wasn't able to hear me. I sobbed and told him how I loved him, and missed him. How proud we were of him and how much we needed to know that he was with us. I had my right hand on his chair and my left at my side. Suddenly all the hair on my right arm stood on end. Goosebumps up my entire arm. I felt "something", what could that have been and why would I only feel it on the side that was touching his chair? Thank you for this site, it is very informative.

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    1. Your husband can hear you, and so, while you might take comfort from their support, you don't need your spirit friends to relay your messages to him.

      The goosebumps effect is something we call the 'psychic shivers' and is an indication that you are receiving psychic information. Then you need only to pay attention, and so find out what that information is.

      If you try our method of communication given in this post, you will find that the setting up, and concentrating, and making a special time to communicate will enable you to interpret the information you receive.

      We wish you every success

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  14. Hi there, I lost by grandmother 14 years ago, to cancer. Her and I were very close and yet to this day I wish I could have been there when she passed, I just recently had a beautiful baby boy that I wish she could have met. There was a time that my mother was taking a shower and the mirrors fogged up and she told both my sister and I to come in, as we did there was a smiley face on the mirror, could this have been her? Also everyone in a while a catch my son starring off in to the room, can he see her?

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    1. Hi Brittney

      We don't give psychic readings, instead we encourage you, and others like you, to try the method of communication given in this post. We suggest you try to communicate with your grandmother and tell her what you have told us, and ask her whether it was her in the mirror, and whether your son can see her.

      We wish you every success

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  15. hey i lost my dad on the 5th of april he was diagnosed with cancer last year of october . we lived in Germany but i moved to arizona 2 years ago . i really miss him i wish i could just talk to him and hold him . ive been trying to comunicate with him but its not working :(

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    1. Hi Jessica

      We are sorry for your pain, it is very hard to lose someone you love so much. We hope you have found support from your local grief support organisations.

      It can be hard to communicate so soon after your loved dad has passed, while everyone is so stirred up, but we suggest that you keep persisting with the method given in this post until you have success.

      Meanwhile, if this is hard, you might want to consult a psychic in your city. Perhaps your friends can recommend a good one.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  16. I feel so guilty. Losing my husband was the most traumatic experience in my life. I have a friend that I have feelings for, but I am feeling so much guilt. That my husband is watching and is disapproving or feeling like I don't (or didn't) love him. My feelings for my friend don't come close to those for my husband, and my love for my husband has never changed despite losing him. Is this normal for people to feel this way and do you think that your spouse in spirit gets jealous or angry? Or .... sad? I don't feel him around me anymore either and in some ways I feel abandoned. I do try to connect with him, but there has been nothing. I miss him so much and would never want to hurt him, in spirit or in life. I worry that he isn't coming around because maybe I already have.

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    1. You don't need to worry about your feelings for your friend, this is a perfectly normal development for someone who has lost their partner.

      As with all relationships, there are a range of responses from the loved one who has passed on, because we are all so unique. Most , however, do understand that their partner needs to have company in their life, and some even encourage a new relationship.

      They are usually too busy with their life between lives to watch everything their partner does, but instead communicate and visit like any other relative who lives elsewhere.

      We are sure you'd like to ask your husband his opinion and share with him this important news. Have you tried the method of communication given in this post? If it isn't working for you yet, you might want to visit a psychic in your city to act as an intermediary for you, perhaps your friends can recommend someone.

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  17. My dad died when I was a little girl,.and I am now 50 years old. I've been trying so hard to connect with him for years. Just recently I had two dreams, one he saw me a ran from me, when i told him it was me he hugged me and told me I looked just like my mom, my mom was angry with him when he died because of his infidelity which happened in the sixties and she left him taking us away from him. The newest I don't know if it was a dream but felt so real but my dad kissed me on my cheek while I was in the bed and then said in a whisper hi baby. I'm still asking him for more signs but because I didn't grow up with him and hadn't seen him since I was six or seven, I don't know what signs to look for.. I remember being his baby for sure though. I've never gotten over losing him before I could see, hug and talk to him before he passed from an appendix eruption in 1977. What signs do I look for or ask for?

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  18. I've been trying to connect with my dad for years. He died in 1977 of and erupted appendix. He cheated on my mom and she got angry and took us away from him when uneasy about six or seven, the only time in-law him after that was when he died. I do remember him and miss him sooo much. I had remonstrance of him, the first dream was I came into this room where he was and he was running from message, when i told him that it was me, his oldest daughter he hugged me and said I looked like my mom. In the second.. I don't want to say it was a dream but I was lying in the bed and I saw him, he kissed me and said in a whisper hi baby. I call on him everyday but because I hadnt seen him since I was six or seven, what kind of signs do I look for, I cry daily for him and I need him right now. I even call him by his name. Would he know it's me?

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    1. Hi Debbie

      We offer the method of communication given in this post for people just like you, and we suggest you give it a try. We expect you will get good results because your father is clearly making efforts to communicate with you as you have found out through those two dreams. He will know it is you, as he has shown you already that he understands you are his daughter. So give our method a try, with love and patience, and we anticipate good results for you

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  19. In trying to communicate with my husband, I have experienced a sensation of chills. It is only when I stand next to his chair and "speak to him". It isn't a cold feeling like I have read when the energy of a spirit is nearby, rather my hair stands on end and I get covered in goose bumps, but not chilled. Could this mean that my efforts to connect are real? They last anywhere from 30 seconds to a couple minutes. And would it be my husband that I am connecting to if I am speaking "directly" to him? I have tried to do this elsewhere in the house and it hasn't worked, but it does work when I am standing beside or touching the chair where he used to sit. What do you make of that?

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    1. The goosebumps effect is something we call the 'psychic shivers' and is an indication that you are indeed receiving psychic information and in this case, yes it is from your husband. So your efforts to connect are already very successful, and now you need only to pay attention, and so find out what that information is.

      If you try our method of communication given in this post, you will find that the setting up, and concentrating, and making a special time to communicate with your husband will enable you to interpret the information you receive.

      We wish you every success

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  20. I was told today that it was selfish of me to call on my husband in spirit, that he had things to do and could not be with me all the time. Is this true? And is it selfish if I hope he is around me? Are they able to divide their time with loved ones they left behind, and their new lives in spirit? Or do they go away for lengths of time and only come visit when they choose? Do they see their children's special school events and things?

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    1. What a strange criticism. It is not selfish to want to spend time with your own husband. You knew him best, so you know when he would want to be home, and which family events he will want to be part of. In fact you can deliberately include him in events at home, such as birthdays, by putting a photo of him out for everyone to see as a reminder he is still part of the family. He can be still part of your lives and go to the same school functions as he would have done when he was physically with you.

      So go right ahead and spend all the time you want to with your husband.

      You may have read in previous comments that each person is an individual, so has individual responses to every situation. Your husband does have other things to do now, but he also had other things to do outside of the home and family when he was physically with you. The balance of time spent with his family and on his other activities is a matter for you both to agree to, just as it always was.

      Some people worry about moving on, and entering into a new relationship, and again, each case is different. Our experience though, is that most people in spirit understand their partner's need for a physical companion and lovingly accept it. Although you haven't asked about this, we include this information so that you feel free to make any decisions which are right for you.



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  21. Thank you for that explanation from the question of May, 8th. While thinking about myself and my need to be with my deceased spouse I wondered, do they get lonely for us the way we get lonely for them? Do they cry? Do they miss us? Do they feel trapped away from us? Do they hover around us in sadness because we can't hear them, or don't know when they are there. Is this a silly thing to ask? I was so caught up in my pain that I never thought of this before, but then it came to me that I still have our home, our children, our life work. He has nothing. Or does he have so much more. As I feel I will remain in a sad state of heart until I meet him once again, does he feel the same?

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    1. Their responses are many and various, however all those who have left loved ones behind, miss being in the same reality with them. They have usually left behind a suffering body, so are pleased to be free of that pain, and most find themselves meeting friends and relatives who passed on before them, so they have that consolation.

      We have another blog you might want to visit here: http://innerrealmsnz.blogspot.co.nz (Copy and paste into your browser) which shows many different responses to the afterlife experience

      We very much appreciate your thanks, we rarely hear from the same person again.

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  22. I will definitely look at that link and thank you again. I will be happy to visit and "talk" to you all frequently. So much I want to learn, and know <3

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  23. In looking for a Medium to go to for the purpose of a reading, what do you suggest to find a reputable one who is honest and intuitive? Also, any ideas on how to connect with someone (therapist) to take you into past life regression? Thank you.

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    1. We can't help you much with this query. We, of course, never go to mediums. We usually suggest that you ask friends, family and work colleagues for recommendations. Googling their name sometimes brings up reviews, if they are well known, and that can be helpful as some have been exposed as frauds.

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  24. Why wouldn't you go to a medium? If you knew he or she was truly intuitive, would you then?

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    1. We don't need to see a medium, we communicate with the spirit world ourselves, that is how we know enough to write this post to help others communicate. We have another blog with many examples. You can find it as a link near the top of this blog, or follow this link: http://innerrealmsnz.blogspot.co.nz/ (C&P into your browser)

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  25. Can spirit go anywhere? Be two places at once? Do they come from our thoughts or through a portal? Can they stay with their family after crossing over? Thank you for the opportunity to ask questions. God bless you all.

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    1. Yes, spirit beings can go anywhere in the world. More advanced beings can be in two or more places at the same time, but most people who are between lives cannot. Yes, they can stay with their families, but will still be absent at times on other projects, just like people who are physically alive do go out, to work or to school or for other reasons.

      You might like to read more about the life between lives here: http://innerrealmsnz.blogspot.co.nz/p/life-between-lives.html (C&P into your browser)

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  26. I lost a dear friend June 6th, so complicated, but here it goes, we were getting to know each other and he adored me and loved me and he wanted to spend eternity with me, Nov 2012 he received some news that he wasn't honest about...I slowly walked out of his life for everything else that was going on around me, he tried to make contact with me in Jan 2013 and I brushed him off. I tied to text him this year in them the months of March / April 2014 and he never replied. May 30, 2014 he was admitted junto the hospital, and June 6th he passed away. I didn't know he was sick. On June 9th I got a message he had passed, I have since been in shock and have not been able to focus and move past it. I'm stuck, regretting. I never got to see him not talk to him before closure and that for me is something I can't accept. How do I reach out to him. How can I talk to him? How do I make him rest in peace? Because right now me crying and calling for him is not letting him rest in peace. Am I stopping him from crossing over? I just need to hear him. Have a sign of something. And right now I have nothing. I'm completely broken. I messed up. I have always made very wrong decisions in my life. And what I did not. Even knowing I did it will make me sad and carry a heavy heart for the rest if my life. I needed to be there for him this last year and ahalf. But I didn't know he had anything. He lied to me about his results and his family didn't know he was dying up till May 30 when he was admitted. He didn't make contact with me to go see him and he never write back. Thinks he hates me? I miss him so much and the thought that I can't ever talk to him again or see him is killing me! Please help me

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    1. How very tragic for you, we feel for your pain. Have you tried the method of communication given in this post? It was written for people like you. Before you can listen for what he has to say, however, you need to explain to him how you feel, because you won't feel free to listen until you have done so. So try our method as given but emphasise explaining your feelings until they calm down enough for you to listen to him.

      We also recommend that you ask for healing for your past mistakes, so that you can let go of the guilt. You will find our page offering free spiritual healing at the top of this blog.

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  27. Thank you for sharing this article. I always find it encouraging when reading these sort of things. I have been seeing a lot of 11:11 and 9:11 and a lot of blue flashes no matter if it is light as day or in the middle of the night with zero lights around. This had never happened to me until after my best friend died tragically over a year ago. We were closer with each other than we had been to anyone else in our lives. I don't know if these are signs and I am missing their meaning? Of course it could be nothing but it happens all the time to the point where I can't avoid it.
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  28. Thank you for posting this article. I always find it encouraging when reading things like this. Over a year ago my best friend tragically died. It wasn't a normal friend relationship. I had never been closer to anyone in my life. Ever since she passed I have been seeing flashes of blue lights. At first I thought I needed to get my eyesight checked out which I did and had nothing wrong. I see this blue light in the daylight and in the pitch black dark in the middle of the night. Along with that I have seen 1111 and 911 repeatedly. I ignored it for a long time and then it just started happening more and more frequently to the point where I thought maybe its a sign for something and I am missing the meaning. Have you heard of this happening before? Does it mean anything?
    I appreciate your opinion.
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    1. Hi Lauren

      We are sorry that you lost your best friend. You haven't explained how she died, however her tragic death will have affected her as well as you. It would be natural for her to want you to take extra care at all times, and perhaps these signs are her way of saying 'be careful out there' to you. If you use the method given in this article to communicate with her, she might be able to confirm this, that she really cares for your welfare.

      We would be inclined to check with an optometrist that your eyes are fine, so that you can be sure that they are not causing you any problems with the flashing lights, just to be on the safe side.

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    2. Thank you for your response. Yes, I have already seen an optometrist. Everything is fine :)
      She was diagnosed with leukemia and after she successfully finished all of her treatment her heart just stopped in her sleep.

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  29. I loss one of my twin boys seven years ago. He was lost to twin to twin transfusion and was born stillborn. His identical twin is seven and talks about him quite often. I hurt for my son, that he didn't get to have his twin on this earth with him. But I have no doubt his spirit is with us often. I look forward to trying and communicate with him.

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    1. How very sad for you to lose your little baby, Brooke. He has been growing up in spirit alongside his twin brother, and staying close to your family. He is excited by the idea of communicating with you, so we expect you to be very successful.

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  30. My nan passed away yesterday morning and I'm not sure how to handle it. We were extremely close, like best friends and the news came as a shock to everyone. My family said goodbye to my nan in the chapel of rest but I didn't want that to be my last memory of her. My mum has been grieving for nan but I haven't, I've had a cry but it's feels as if I'm forcing it out.

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    1. Everyone grieves in a different and personal way, Poppy. You have gone into a state of shock, and, as with all emotions, the best you can do is acknowledge it and let it be itself until it changes into another emotion. There is help available in most places giving support to anyone who grieves and you might like to look for such help, perhaps a support group, near you.

      When you feel up to it, you can try the method of communicating given in this article, and we feel your nan will be pleased to talk with you this way.

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  31. My future mother In law and myself got into an arguement. ..I ended up leaving. She told my boyfriend/ fiance that it was my fault and I started it, in fact thats what she told everyone. She threatened suicide that night and told tanner (her son, by fiance) that he had to choose between me and her...and if he chose her they would put a restraining order on me. He was heartbroken...I finally was able to see the conversations they had between text messaging....she called me the devil and blamed me and tanner for ruining her life....a few days later she actually did kill herself. Ever since, I cant help but feel like its my fault. I would love to talk to her one more time maybe apologize maybe listen....im not even sure what I would say. At the moment I cant get it out of my head that it was my fault.

    Sorry for grammatical errors and spelling errors

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    1. We feel for your pain in this very sad situation. We would like to reassure you that it is not your fault, and it is not your fiancĂ©’s fault, that his mother committed suicide. Many thousands of people fall out very seriously with their mother or mother-in-law without anyone committing suicide, so it was something in her, and not in the situation, that caused her to take her own life. She is now being taken care of by a team of loving understanding people in spirit who will help her heal her emotional pain. There is help available for you too. We recommend that it is too soon to try to talk to her, instead you can use the method given in this post to talk to your own Guardian Angel, for the love and reassurance you need right now.

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  32. I lost my mum two weeks ago and I'm missing her a lot.also worry about how or where she is now and if she is happy with the funeral arrangements I made for her. Just finding it hard at times realising she's gone and will never see her again :(

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    1. It is very hard to lose a loved one. We send you our sympathies.

      Be reassured that your mother is pleased with the funeral arrangements. We feel that you could start communicating with her as soon as you are ready, using the method given in this post, and we would expect you to be very successful.

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  33. I had my girlfriend pass away in a plane crash in 1995, in colorado, in the north east part of the state. She was with her day who was flying, and two others, so there was 4 in the plane. Her name was Gina Marie Geffre. Since that day she left me, I feel as though there's a part of my soul that's missing and can't be healed ! If there's anybody from Colorado that remembers her , she was only 14 when she died. It feels like yesterday for me. About two years ago, out of the blue I started to find where she was buried at. And wanted to reconnect with her. Her mom sent me two pictures of her, one was about 2-3 months prior to her crash. I miss her with all that is me, and all that is holly.

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    1. Hi Brian

      What a sad story: we feel for your pain. Have you tried using the method in this article to communicate with her? We wsih you every success

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  34. Hi. My Mom passed away almost 6 years ago. I was 24 years old and pregnant with my second child who is now 5. My mom had an extremely close relationship with my daughter who was 3 at the time, however due to her early death, she never got to meet my son. My Mom was 50 when she passed away. I never knew my real dad...she married my step dad when I was 3, of which, to this day, I still call him dad. My Mom had health issues, but none that I knew of were life threatening. I spoke to my Mom the day she passed that morning...she sounded fine. I spoke to her again that evening and although she carried on a conversation with me, I could tell she was a little out of it. The medicine that she was on at time made her this way, so I thought nothing of it. That evening when I tried to call her again, she never answered. As I was getting ready to go and check on her, something told me not to...a feeling that told me just to stay home. That night I fell asleep on the couch, I woke up a little after 12am to my daughter randomly crying out for help due to her stomach. I took her to the bathroom and she began to vomit. When I got her back to her room, my phone rang. It was my dad calling me to tell me that she had passed. At the time, my dad worked an odd shift. It was a Saturday and on this day, he worked 12pm to 12am. He called me around 12:30am. When he got home, he had found my Mom. My Dad left me in charge of all of the funeral arrangements. He let me pick out everything. At 24, the whole situation hit me like a ton of bricks. I didn't think to get an autopsy. I had no idea what I was doing and it was all so surreal. I have no idea how or why my Mom passed away. I would love to be able to contact my Mom somehow to know that she's ok, to see if she is able to check up on us from time to time, and to see if she if can see her grandchildren. My Mom was my only blood relative that I knew besides my children. I didn't realize that until after she passed so now, even after almost 6 years, I still feel as lost as ever. I just want to know that she's ok. I've tried communicating with her but get nothing. My Mom was very spiritual when she was living. She always said that she was able to communicate with her deceased loved one. Being the skeptical one that I am, I always chose to brush what she was saying off. Now that that she has passed away, I find myself more than ever wanting to be able to do what she did with her relatives. I want to know that she still watches over us. I want to know that she is ok. Most of all, I want her to know that we love her and that we still miss her. Any help that you may be able to provide would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!

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  35. Hi, my husband died very suddenly and unexpectedly 8 weeks ago tomorrow, I miss him so much and wish more than anything that i had been with him when he died. I want to know if he is ok and how he wants me to live without him, all i want is to die

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    1. We are very sorry for your pain, it is very hard to lose someone you love so suddenly. We hope you have found support from your local grief support organisations.

      We wrote this post so that people like you can try to communicate with their loved ones using the method given. If this is too hard for you at this time, you might want to consult a medium in your city. Perhaps your friends can recommend a good one. Or, we have a page where you can send a donation in order to have your personal question answered. You will find it in the menu at the top of the blog, It is called 'Personal Help and Support'.

      You would also benefit from spiritual healing for your terrible pain, and we have another page outlining a method you can follow to ask for healing, you will find also find this page in the menu at the top of the blog. It is called ‘Free Spiritual Healing’.

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  36. Hi, my brother passed away Oct 17, 2014 due to colon cancer I miss him so much he was the the happiest one at home now the house feels sad and lonely I would like to know if he's lost or scared
    I can't wait to try the method to communicate
    Thank you

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    1. We are sorry for the loss of your beloved brother, Rose. We wish you every success in communicating with him

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  37. Hi, my father passed away three days ago, we were very close. I was able to spend three nights with him while in Hospice. While in hospice he kept his eyes closed and did not really respond. I was then able to ask him questions and he would lightly squeeze my finger for a yes answer. He was pretty much this way until he passed. The night he past I went to hospice after going home to rest a couple of hours, by the time I got there it was to late. I got in my vehicle to go home and started it, the display said the battery was not charging, never had this problem before, it started to charge after about 30 seconds. The last time I had an electrical issue with my truck was when he cut two finger tips off and we were going to the hospital and the electric fuel pump went out.

    The second night after he passed my wife and I were sitting in the living room and she closed the door as we were getting ready to go to bed, when she closed the door my driveway monitor beeped and the visitor light came on, along with the low battery light, I went down and put brand new batteries in and came back in and reset the unit. I cam back in and the unit would still beep randomly. I ended up locating the receiver in the house where I knew it never worked before, the unit would still continue to chime randomly.

    The next day while in my shop I told my dad, if that is you when I go back in the house make the unit beep twice within a minute to let me know. I then went in the house about 5 minutes later and my wife had a sandwich ready for more, I sat at the table and the unit beeped, after about 15 seconds it beeped again. This driveway monitor has never done anything like this ever before. I am curious if you may have ever heard of this as being a possible way of communications? Its actually really comforting to hear the unit go off, as my thought is that he is just letting me know he is visiting since it triggers the visitor light on the receiver.

    I am sitting hear this third evening and the unit has beeped randomly but not alot, and just recently it beeped twice in a row again. It seems to be not as active as last night.

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    1. Thank you for sharing this very interesting story. Yes, we have come across many other examples of loved ones who have passed on finding ways to communicate with the people they have left behind.

      We feel sure that your father would appreciate it, and cooperate with you, if you use the method given in this post to communicate with him at greater length, and we wish you every success

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  38. My father passed away unexpectedly in July 2013. I had been trying to get a hold of him for a few days and he never called me back, so my aunt & uncle went to check on him and they found him deceased in his condo (I live in California & he lived in Ohio so i was not able to go over to his house to check on him). I was, and am still devastated. He and I were very close and I miss him terribly. I think about him everyday. I was 8 months pregnant when he passed away and he was so excited about me having his first granddaughter. I am certain he has visited my daughter, but since his passing i have only dreamed of him once and when I try to communicate I get overwhelmed with sadness and have to stop. I have considered locating a medium because I need to know what happened to him. There are strange circumstances surrounding his passing and I really need answers for my own peace of mind. Also, he was very busy the weeks leading up to his passing and our regular twice a week hour long conversations became less the last months of his life. He had a lot on his plate and I tried to give him some space because I knew he was tired. I still have the message he left me on my birthday in my phone - he passed away 12 days later (we think). his official date of death was the day he was found, but it was not like him to not call me back so I believe he died before the "official" date listed on his death certificate.

    I was hoping that maybe you can help me? I am going crazy not knowing what happened, if he is ok, what he wants me to do with his work he was doing, and not knowing if he knows how much I love him.

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    1. We are very sorry for your pain, it is very hard to lose someone you love so suddenly. We hope you have found support from your local grief support organisations.

      We wrote this post so that people like you can try to communicate with their loved ones using the method given. If this is too hard for you at this time, then it would indeed be helpful for you to consult a medium in your city. Perhaps your friends can recommend a good one.

      You would also benefit from spiritual healing for your terrible pain, and we have another page outlining a method you can follow to ask for healing, you will find this page in the menu at the top of the blog. It is called ‘Free Spiritual Healing’.

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  39. Please help me contact the love of my life. He died 12/20/2014 in a horrible accident flipping his truck 3 tkmes. He loved me! He loved our baby 3 Piper. His ex wife says he was on his way to her house. His family friend s everyone treats us like nothing! He was our only advocate. He was the only one who loved us! Is it true?! Please help me!! He made me 100 % beneficiary because he knew they wld do this to us!! Was he going there!! Was she the last voice he wanted to hear? !? $?!

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  40. I wrote last night begging for your help and still need it desperately. Just had to share that I woke up this morning just as the sun was almost coming up then laid my head back down and as I drifted off to sleep thgt to myself this is suppose to be the best time to communicate. And I recall as almost a dream voice growling " there will be more later" and that's it...When my 3 year old piper who sleeps with me asked me about 8:30 " mommy who growled, I didn't growl" I became very certain it was Brad! Was it him communicating with me?!?!?!

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    1. We are very sorry for your pain, it is very hard to lose someone you love so suddenly. We hope you have found support from your local grief support organisations.

      We wrote this post so that people like you can try to communicate with their loved ones using the method given. If this is too hard for you at this time, you might want to consult a medium in your city. Perhaps your friends can recommend a good one.

      You would also benefit from spiritual healing for your terrible pain, and we have another page outlining a method you can follow to ask for healing, you will find this page in the menu at the top of the blog. It is called ‘Free Spiritual Healing’.

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  41. My partner passed away 9 days ago.its heartbreaking bcz we had so much to look forward to.we planned on spending a lifetime together.he suddenly died of a heart attack.i just want to know for sure he is ok and happy n not confused or scared.but dont know how to find out.i need him to know that he will always b my love my baby for as long as im alive n beyond.

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    1. We are very sorry for your pain, it is very hard to lose someone you love so suddenly. We hope you have found support from your local grief support organisations.

      We wrote this post so that people like you can try to communicate with their loved ones using the method given. At the very least, you can use it to tell your partner how you feel. If this is too hard for you at this time, you might want to consult a medium in your city. Perhaps your friends can recommend a good one.

      You would also benefit from spiritual healing for your terrible pain, and we have another page outlining a method you can follow to ask for healing, you will find this page in the menu at the top of the blog. It is called ‘Free Spiritual Healing’.

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  42. My husband passed away nearly a year ago, after a very long and devastating illness. I was blessed to be able to spend that time with him nearly 24/7. After he passed, we saw/heard/felt many signs from him, that he was still with us. While that gave me great comfort, I was confused as to why I never dreampt of him. I would talk to him and ask him, "why do I not dream of you"? I read multiple times that spirit can reach us easier in our dreams...I also talk to him and have told him how I missed hearing his heavy boots on the floor as he left in the morning for work. How I missed hearing his boots as he came home each day... After nearly a year without him, I FINALLY dreamed of him! In the dream, I was in our bedroom when I heard the key in the door. Then the door opened and I heard his heavy work boots as he came down the hall! As we met in the kitchen, where we always did, he turned to me and he was radiant. His smile so beautiful.... otherworldly. There are no words to describe how he looked.... just absolutely beautiful. He smiled so broadly and I went to him, hugging him. As we embraced (I felt his embrace, but cannot remember his arms ever reaching around me) I kept saying how much I have missed him. He continued to smile.... and without ever seeing him speak, I 'heard' him say, "I haven't missed you, I have been here all along". Then it was over.... funny thing is - I remembered this dream vividly, unlike so many others. I told my mom the next day, and when I mentioned the boots - she asked me if he was wearing his work uniform? I thought about it and replied "no, I think he was wearing black".... as I thought about it more, I realized that he wasn't wearing any clothes, that it was only a 'form' of a body. I didn't even see his boots, which was the first thing that caught my attention. As I think about it - only his face was in color - brilliant, radiant, beautiful..... What do you make of this? A real spirit visitation? And why the body with no clothes? With no real 'body'? Thank you so much for your website and your time <3

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    1. What a wonderful experience. We have found that people in spirit, or indeed even physically alive people who are transmitting telepathically, will 'create' their thought form body according to how they think about themselves. For some people this means they will appear very much the same as they would if they were physically present, and others, who perhaps do not pay much attention to the way they look, will be less physical looking in the inner dimensions.

      We hope you have more such wonderful experiences with your beloved husband.

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  43. My loved one was murdered and buried in a shallow grave. I am afraid his spirit is 'stuck' at the place he was murdered. How can I know? What can I do if he is? I am struggling with this.

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    1. Your loved one is not stuck at all, but is free and being taken care of. It would definitely be worthwhile for you to try the method of communication given in this post

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    2. I got to know him last year December. We got along pretty well even though he was so much younger than me. We quarreled at times but we would quickly patch things up. He was like a soulmate, a buddy to me. We got really attached to each other and I really like him a lot. Last Sunday, I received an email saying that he had passed away five days ago. I really couldn't believe it. I was saddened and devastated. We were still having a small fight a quite days ago and now, he is gone? I regret for ignoring him when he tried to talk to me during our fight. I want to apologize to him for being so stupid and stubborn. Till now, I still don't know what really happened to him as the email didn't mention much. I feel kind of lost and I miss him a lot. I'm still very sad over his passing. Tell me he is okay, please?

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    3. We are very sorry for your pain, it is very hard to lose someone you love so suddenly. We hope you have found support from your local grief support organisations.

      We wrote this post so that people like you can try to communicate with their loved ones using the method given. At the very least, you can use it to tell him how you feel. If this is too hard for you at this time, you might want to consult a medium in your city. Perhaps your friends can recommend a good one.

      You would also benefit from spiritual healing for your terrible pain, and we have another page outlining a method you can follow to ask for healing, you will find this page in the menu at the top of the blog. It is called ‘Free Spiritual Healing’.

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  44. Hello Spiritual Teachers, I'm writing this post because I recently lost one my best friends, and soul mate almost one month ago. My heart aches knowing that he is gone, but also because he died alone, in a tragic way (unintentional drug overdose). We had moved on in other directions in our lives, but we always managed to keep in contact, and always had a strong connection, but it seemed like our timing was always off. With that being said, there was no denying that tie with each other, and he tried to friend request me on Facebook a week before he passed, but I was reluctant to accept. Had I known he was hurting emotionally, and in a bad place, I could have helped him. I'm a substance abuse counselor, so I feel guilt about that. I've had dreams that include him, have experienced signs of him being near, but I'm not sure if he knows exactly how much I still love him? I'm don't think that I'll ever experience a love so true in this lifetime, and I feel so lost without him on this earth. Please advise. His name is Brandon. Thank you.

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    1. We are very sorry for your pain, it is very hard to lose someone you love so suddenly. We hope you have found support from your local grief support organisations.

      We wrote this post so that people like you can try to communicate with their loved ones using the method given. At the very least, you can use it to tell your friend how you feel. If this is too hard for you at this time, you might want to consult a medium in your city. Perhaps your friends can recommend a good one.

      You would also benefit from spiritual healing for your pain, and your guilty feelings, and we have another page outlining a method you can follow to ask for healing, you will find this page in the menu at the top of the blog. It is called ‘Free Spiritual Healing’.

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  45. I just lost my fiance April 30th we had been together for almost 17 years. He was everything to me and the kids. He was quite a bit older than me and would tell me that he wasn't going to be around much longer, it was kinda like he may have knew. I want and need to here from him in some way. sometimes I think I can hear him in my heart if that makes sense? he'd always tell me" his heart was with me" he was my soul mate I love him.. I just need to talk with him and know he's okay

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    1. We are very sorry for your pain, it is very hard to lose someone you love so suddenly. We hope you have found support from your local grief support organisations.

      We wrote this post so that people like you can try to communicate with their loved ones using the method given. At the very least, you can use it to tell your fiance how you feel. If this is too hard for you at this time, you might want to consult a medium in your city. Perhaps your friends can recommend a good one.

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