Friday, June 12, 2009

How to communicate with a loved person who has died

It is so painful to lose a much loved person who was an important part of your life. Although it cannot bring them back, it is still very comforting to be able to communicate with them again.
 
One way to do this is to sit in a comfortable chair and imagine your loved one sitting in another chair opposite you. Mentally tell them what you want them to know. When you do this, you attract their attention. They can use the image you provide to help them focus and speak to you through it. If you have difficulty hearing them speak to you, first imagine what they might say. Keep listening. When they say something unexpected, something you didn’t imagine them saying, you will know you have really communicated with them. If it helps, before you begin remember other conversations with them, when they were alive. Notice how you follow these conversations in your mind. This will give you a guideline to help you hold a psychic conversation with them. Then try again.

We have met a mother and daughter who used to go to the cemetery to visit the grave of their husband and father, trying to feel close to him. What they didn’t realise was that he went with them to the cemetery, riding in the back seat of the car and trying to make contact with them. He would have been very pleased if they had instead, tried this way of communicating with him.

We know that you will be grieving badly, and we do also offer a free spiritual healing method, which we explain for you here: http://faithlovenz.blogspot.co.nz/p/free-spiritual-healing.html


Having communicated with hundreds of people who have died, we can tell you with complete certainty that they continue to live, but without the physical body, and they have the same characteristics and interests which they had while they were alive. People do not turn into angels when they have died, in fact angels are a different species of being. Your loved one is the same person that s/he was when s/he was alive in the physical body, and is not only still interested in the same things, and still loving you and the other special people they have had to leave behind, but also meeting friends and family members who were already in the life between lives state, and also having new dimensions of life and activity to explore. There is no heaven, and there is no hell. Instead there are new opportunities for creativity, expansion, development, learning, and loving.

There are plenty of people who will be pleased at least that there is no hell! The nearest we have seen is that people who have done very bad things when they were alive in the physical body, carry the wounds of those bad deeds, and many of them experience ‘nightmares’ of horror, until they ‘run off’ their legacy of violations, and become ready to change their ways, and to receive healing for the bad things they had done.

If you now feel very stirred up about your own ‘bad deeds’, we want to very much encourage you to ask God for healing for all the bad deeds you have loaded on yourself. It is extremely important and very, very essential for your spiritual and overall wellbeing to be honest with yourself and to give yourself fully to God, God loves you, and very much wants you to heal and is there for you. No-one can make this journey for you, and the sooner you start, the better for you when you come to the end of your current life, it will help you also to stop whatever you are still doing you shouldn’t do. Please be brave, embrace your basic goodness, your basic nature is truly beautiful and holy, it is worth it, we promise, it is always the best journey, the journey to healing all the misdeeds, and indeed, all the pains and sorrows you carry whether they are self imposed or received from others. Be brave, God is very much waiting for you to receive all the healing and all the cleaning up of your life that you need, for God loves you most dearly. Please, try and never give up you will be so pleased, so relieved one day for having been kind to yourself and taken that big step now, and not later when you have moved on from this life.

Our desire and intentions are to encourage everyone to receive all the help and healing they need for their welfare, and if we have filled your mind with questions and worries about your lifestyle, and what it will mean for your conditions in the life between life states, please contact us, and we will offer you support and encouragement to heal your pain and clean up your lifestyle. We believe in you, we believe in your basic goodness, your inner divinity, and we assure you everything can be healed, and you can begin that healing journey now, you don’t need to wait.




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113 comments:

  1. me & my sister went to visit our friends grave and out of nowhere i see a feather right by my sisters foot and she picked it up and saw one right by me and we looked to see if there was anymore feathers anywhere else and there were only thoose two.does feathers mean anything?

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    1. This is a significant event, and your best way of understanding it is to interpret it as if it were a dream. What do feathers mean to you? What did they mean to your friend who passed away? Do you perhaps associate feathers with angels? Try to gently think what it might mean by pondering over these questions

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  2. My nana passed away this Friday its been very hard on me because I was very close to her. I often worry if she's ok, safe, happy or if she's alone and scared. When I left her at the cemetery I felt like I was leaving her with strangers...I felt so bad I returned a couple hours later. My uncle said he seen her and she was happy but I wanna know for myself. Is there anyway anyone can talk to her?? I just want to see if she's ok.

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  3. You miss your nana so much :( We are sorry for your pain.

    We wrote this article for people just like you. So try the method we explain here.

    We wish you every success

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  4. My daughter was in a tragic car acceident just three weeks ago...I think I have seen signs from her...She loved rainbows, 3 days ago I woke to find a rainbow on my hardwood floors...It was not raining that day, it was just a sunny day..Could this have been a sign from her? I am going to try the method you explained here, but I can't do it without crying

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  5. i got a phone call yesterday with 11111 3xs and the first time i didnt anseer the second i answerd n noone said nothing n the third the same thang happened could that be my lost loved one calling my cell? bkuz ive been talking to him in my prayers asking him to call my cell phone

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  6. my fiance and i are grieving over our "bestman's" death..he passed away a little over a month ago. he was walking uo the road after he wrecked his car and got hit by another one. he and my fiance were bestfriends and his girlfriend and i are still good friends and we all want/need anwers as to why it happened and if hes okay now. we want to talk to him and maybe even see him one last time.. what should i do?

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  7. Hello, a guy I know just passed away a few days ago. I had only met him once through a mutual friend, but thought about him quite a bit in the months following, although never bothered to contact him. When I found out he had passed away, I instantly felt regret that I hadn't tried to contact him or told him I liked him. A day or so later I had a dream which is now very blurry but I do remember us being on a beach and him telling me he liked me from the first moment we met, but never said anything.
    Could that be his way of trying to contact me? Something keeps nagging me since I found out about the accident.
    thanks

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  8. Yes, people do communicate with others both living and dead in the dream state, so this was a real communication

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  9. There is someone who has been around my home,a spirit.I know who he is,and can seriously feel his presence.He was a WWII German Tank commander.No one famous.
    This has become obvious to me in the time he and I have been in my home together.His scent is Gasoline and oil,..very strong at times. The thing is,I would like to talk with him,to find out why he sought me out to befriend. I do not want him to leave,because the feeling is good when he is near,but I do wish to understand his presence here.I have felt something like someone blowing air next to my ear,have heard a whisper.Also,I have heard a mans voice in my living room several times,but I was already in bed.
    Will this that you have told us work to open a verbal communication with my Spirit friend?

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    1. How very interesting!!

      Yes, our method as given should work with a spirit like this who is already trying so hard to communicate

      We wish you every success

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  10. It's been 7 months now since I lost the best friend I have ever had.She was like my other half.Wherever one went the other did too.We were just like twins,not in looks though.She and I were inseparable for over 8 years,every day,all day.Kinda like Flypapered to eachother.
    She got Esophageal Cancer and it took 2 years for her to die.It was hard,she couldnt eat,and she became a skeleton almost.She was so beautiful when she was well,..and in the final week of her life,she sat right in front of me while her right lung collapsed.She wouldnt go to the hospital,but camped out in my living room,on the floor,curled up in her thick blankets,by my feet,near me,so she knew I was there.She was so terrified of the end,and I couldnt help her.I feel so bad inside.
    I am having a hard time not having her with me,and I'd give anything to have her be able to talk with me again.I miss her so much.
    Thanks,
    Sandy

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  11. Hi Sandy

    This is an extremely sad situation you have explained here. We are so sorry that you lost such a wonderful, close friend so tragically.

    It can take time after such a tragic loss for both people to settle down enough to be able to concentrate on communicating, so keep trying with the method given here, and be patient.

    You will also find a link in the article to our free spiritual healing page, if you would like to try it.

    Our sympathies go out to you

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  12. Hi my good friend tony passed away on Sunday motorbike accident I want to communicate with him to tell him even though we were arguing for a few months and not speaking that I love him very much and am desperate to get a sign from him that he is ok.
    I would like to hear that he knows I love him and was only doing what I thought was right.
    Is it too soon to try and talk to him?
    Very upset and feel like I let him down.
    Thanks
    Paula

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  13. We are sorry for your pain. It is hard to lose someone you love when things were not going so well. It is not too soon to try to talk with him, however sometimes it is difficult for both people to be calm enough to communicate. If you don't get a response right away, try to be calm, and keep trying.

    We wish you every success

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  14. My grandmother died a few months ago. I feel her presence a lot and I have had dreams in which I communicate with her. The numbers 13607 came up a few times in my dreams and I was wondering if you knew anything about those numbers. Is this normal?
    Thanks,
    Chris

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    1. Your grandmother communicates very well. This is normal, however many of the people who write to us would like to have such good communication, so in that sense, you and your grandmother are doing unusually well.

      We suggest that the number must have meaning for your grandmother. Perhaps it is a birth date - 13-06-2007 - or a number on some papers she valued, or a safe combination number. Try 'looking around' the number when it next comes into your dreams for some other signs of its meaning. Before you go to sleep, tell yourself you will do this.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  15. Hello i hope your having a good day. I just want to connect with my mom who just passed away 2 weeks ago. I've felt her a couple of times but then other times not so much. I just want to talk to her know she's okay and thing's like that. My emotions are like a rollercoaster, sometimes i'm okay and other times I'm not. I just tried doing the method above but i feel my mind wanders off. Is there anything i can do to help myself get in contact to her and hear what my mom has to say?

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    1. Hi

      We are sorry for your loss. We realise it can be hard to concentrate on trying to communicate in these early days, sometimes both people need time to calm down in order to communicate. We suggest you persist with this method, and be gentle with yourself and not expect too much too soon.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  16. I just lost my one of my best friends. I loved him so much; I always have. It was so unexpected. Two weeks ago I told him that after my final exams, I would be over to visit him a lot more. He was on house arrest, but I can't even stress enough how great of a person he was. He was so young and misguided; He was only 21. Last Wednesday was when he passed, and my exams are over this Wednesday, which is also the day of his funeral. I want to speak to him. I need to speak to him! Please help me.

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    1. Hi. We are sorry to hear of your loss and your pain. It is always hard to lose someone you love.

      We wrote this article for people just like you, to help you communicate with your loved one. We suggest you give it a try.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  17. Hello,

    Three months ago I lost my uncle to Leukemia. We were extremely close and often confided in each other. My birthday is Sept 20th and his the 21st. He passed on the 15th and his funeral was a day after his birthday. Before he passed we spoke and he said what he could.

    Since then, I had had numerous occurrences that seem to be like someone is with me. First, not being able to sleep like there is a presence, second, feeling like someone was tugging my hair, him being in many dreams and the most recent was last night.. I thought I was sleep possibly dreaming but it seemed like a state of me falling or almost being sleep and he was standing in the doorway. He called my name which was loud and clear and then was reaching his hand to out to give me something. He wanted me to listen to what he had to say which I was trying to do so but after hearing him say my name it was like the volume was muted. I've been so frustrated because If he has a message I want to hear and talk to him but I haven't been able to hear/remember what the messages were. How do I know if these are just dreams or actually him trying to contact me?

    Thanks
    Larissa

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  18. Hi Larissa

    Your uncle is definitely trying to communicate with you, and doing very well considering it is early days still.

    We encourage you to try the method given in this article, we are sure that your uncle will be keen to join in.

    We wish you every success

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  19. I lost my husband and love of my life SS 10 days ago after a short struggle with Cancer. He didn't believe in afterlife, but I certainly do! I wonder now if he's in a good place? Is he happy? I'm devastated by his loss and really want to talk to him but not sure if he'll ever respond or be there for me.

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  20. We are so sorry to hear of your loss, it is very hard for you to lose your beloved husband so suddenly!

    He is quite overwhelmed with lots of emotions, finding himself in the afterlife that he was not prepared to believe in is existing! He is having to deal with this at the moment, and is still somewhat scared of his new existence and finds himself confused - in a good and beneficial way, for it will move him eventually forward and will enable him much better to deal with various challenges he was having while he still was in his earth life. I am becoming aware, while I am accessing him, that he is a bit scared that I am easily able to contact him, but is responding by becoming somewhat reassured that after all nothing bad is happening, but that this helps him because of our own natural understanding and acceptance of life after death, and will also help him with his own grieving and healing he will have to do.

    He is very sorry for what he has put you through and will try his best to be open to communicating with you, but you have to be gentle, for he has to adapt his ideas about the nature of reality, and he has to assess everything differently, especially the way he assessed the people he cares about. His Guardian Angel is with him, supporting him through this difficult time and is also reaching out to you and helping you with your own Guardian Angel to find support and help on how to communicate with this angel, and with your husband.

    You can use the method we have given in this article, and you will be able to find new strength, understanding and meaning, on why this is your new journey.

    We send you our loving support and healing to help you through this difficult time.

    Many Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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  21. I just had a baby boy on december 8 2012. my granny was so excited to be a great granny. just a few months prior to his birth we found out she had a disease called amyloidosis. I was planning to visit her tomorrow. I was making plans to make the visit and getting ready to go I got the text that she passed away this after noon at 3:15 pm. I havnt seen her in 3 years and I feel so guilty for not making in time for her to meet her great grandson. she loved him and she showed him off to everybody thru pictures but she didnt get to hold him. I want to know if there is a way that ill be able to tell that shes communicating with my son and that she sees him. is that possibl?

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  22. I am sorry to hear about your loss of your beloved granny! I can understand that you feel very upset that you couldn’t see her and guilty for not making time for her sooner.

    I would first like to reassure you that there are no coincidences in the way people arrange their lives. On a deeper level everyone is aware of what is going on in their life and does have choices on how to create their reality; so in your situation your granny was well aware that she would not see you again. People always make arrangements on these levels with each other even though that might seem to be sometimes hard to understand, but it make all perfect sense to both of you on these inner levels, and therefore you do not need to feel upset about it anymore, although that might be difficult.

    Your granny is well and enjoys again good ‘health’ in her life-between-lives state, and enjoys her new freedom. She likes seeing her great grandson when she is around you and has loving feelings about him; she feels that he will look a bit like granddad when he is getting older. I do pick her up to be quite lively and full of energy with a warm attitude and humour; and a true feeling of wellbeing she hasn’t felt for a long time!

    She chose to leave before she could hold him because she knew she was departing and didn’t want to get too attached to him by holding him; also she found it too painful to feel old and had a strong longing to be young and well again! That is perfectly acceptable and we often find that people choose to die when their dearest aren’t present because often that makes it easier for them to let go.

    The best way for you to know that she is communicating with him is to try the method we have given in this article, so that she can tell you how she can see him growing. She will definitely continue to visit you and your son and can see you both and is taking an interest in both of your futures, but she will also be busy with arranging her own future, which is suiting her very well, since she has a lot she wants to explore that she couldn’t do all in one lifetime and slowly she is planning her new future life.

    We wish you well with all of this and with your motherhood, be reassured again you have done your best!

    Blessings
    The Spiritual Teachers

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    1. thank you so so so much! you described her perfectly. she is my fathers mom so you saying that she thinks he will look like his granddad is very reassuring. I feel so much better. thank you!

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  23. I lost my husband of 26 years in 2011. I have been trying to contact him but to no avail

    How do I contact him?

    thank you

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    1. I am sorry to hear of your loss, 26 years together is a long time, and has its own challenges when things have to change!

      Our method that we have published in our article is a general good guideline for you to communicate with your husband, and is still worth pursuing on a regular basis.

      Your husband is still quite tired and exhausted from his life’s journey, it feels like he had to walk a long, long marathon to get to the end of his life, with lots of holding back his own emotions, and challenges in relation to other people and other daily things that he was engaged in.

      He feels like he doesn’t enjoy communication at this stage, and is still quite thoughtful about looking back at his life with all the new impressions he has now, looking at it from a different point of view. It is all for the good and will help him gain deeper and beneficial understandings about his own journey leading him in quite different directions for his future endeavours.

      The best way for you is to focus on all the things you shared with him that made you feel you got on well together, and had a common understanding and agreement. He also needs to feel quite often that it is ok for him to let go, he did the best he could at the time, and can now accept his new journey.

      Just be aware that he needs time to absorb all his impressions, which are quite different for him now, he perceives even his family differently, particularly their emotions.

      You both will receive spiritual healing from us and that will help you both.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  24. hi my father passed away in Nov 2012 and i'm trying really hard to communicate with him, i dream of him a lot and hope that that is when he is communicating with me. My dad always advised me on every issue in my l8ife and now i feel of lost my mentor, and i have questions i need him to advise me on but dont know how to connect with him? i look at pictures of him all the time and am very emotional as i miss him so much, i find it hard to imagine him sitting in a chair talking to me as he was bed bound for 4 years, and in his final days we took him out of hospital against their wishes but it was what he wanted and in the last day he was scared and said maybe he should have stayed in hospital but i reassured him it was best for him to be home where he get all the love and care from his family, but i need him to let me know if this was the right thing to do, do you have any more tips for me to connect with him and get his advice on a very important issue which will change me and my families life, also someone told me its too early to see a medium as my dad will be on his own journey, is this true? thank you

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    1. Hi Larissa

      I am sorry to hear of the sad loss of your beloved dad. Yes, when you dream of him he is communicating with you, and he also connects with you from other connection you have with him; you and he have been friends for a long time before he became your father in this life.

      I can see that it is very challenging for you to miss your beloved dad’s support. The best you can do is to imagine him answering your questions when you need advice from him. You do not need to look at a picture of him but just use your imagination and pretend he is lying in bed and you are talking to him, that way you will find it a bit easier to reach for this much wanted answer. Be aware that you are also stressed and therefore it can be a little bit harder to get the desired result quickly.

      I am becoming aware that he is very grateful that I am helping you with this and wants you to know how very much he loves you, and you have done the right thing. He says that he only was anxious how things would develop with him being terminally ill and how much a burden he might become, but now he is relieved that all is over and he is quite happy being in the life between lives. He also tells me that he has taught you, through the loving bond he has with you, that you can trust in your own wisdom by always make the decision according to your assessment of what is the right thing to do; even when it seems to be hard to make the decision, it will turn out alright.

      In regards to seeing a medium, it is not really too early but sometimes it is better to trust in your own wisdom, rather than seeing a medium who might perhaps not give you genuine advice or is not suitable for your own best interests. In any case I advise you to use your own intuition on this issue and rely on your own strength that your dear dad has encouraged you to use.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  25. I lost my mother in 2011. Then I read the book "The laws of the spiritual world". The author of the book suggested that one should not try to directly communicate with his lost ones. He/she should take help of a person who can communicate with soul.

    Can you please assist me?
    I really wish to communicate with my mother.


    Yours faithfully,
    Ashish Mehta
    Mo-09429980245
    (INDIA)

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    1. Dear Ashish

      I am sorry to hear of your loss of your mother. Your mother is very happy to communicate with you. She is very content, and pleased that you have contacted us for advice.

      We are of course not having any problems that people contact their loved ones. The only reservation we have is that sometimes people cling too much on the dear souls that are in the life between lives, and therefore it can be difficult for them to let go of their physical life and get ready to explore other beneficial dimensions. It is naturally very hard for the loved ones who are still in their familiar surroundings, with their loved one not being there anymore, and is therefore very normal that letting them go is very painful and often difficult. Most people in the life between lives still have their own loving bond to the loved ones they left behind and are more than happy to stay in contact and communicate with them. The loving bond will always remain and can even expand and get stronger!

      The best and most respectful way is to understand that the loved one has a new journey and therefore their attention is filled with lots of new things to absorb and new decisions to be made.

      There is a lot of different information available about communication with spirits, and it can make it very confusing what to believe. I encourage you to trust your own judgment on these matters and if you are comfortable, try to use the method we have published in our article.

      Your mother very much enjoys her new freedom and her new sense of wellbeing and youthfulness. She is a very lively and active soul and full of new energy, and she loves you very much. She wants you to know that she wishes you would take better care of yourself and would absolutely love staying in touch with you and talking about the things you two used to talk about.

      We wish you lots of success with your communication with her, if you decide to try it.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  26. Thank you so much for that, it really helps, can I just ask another question, can you tell me if he is happy where he is now?

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    1. And is the grave a good place to connect with him?

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    2. Hi

      Noone likes to hang around in a graveyard, so, as in the story in our article, the dead person often goes with their grieving loved one to the grave. It is much better for you to try to connect at home.

      I have been inundated with questions about loved ones who have died on facebook, so I have now set up a page where you can send me a donation first, and then ask your question. I have explained more on the new page. So I am sorry, I will no longer be answering questions posted on this page, however feel free to share your experiences here. If you do have any questions for me, please visit that page: 'Personal Advice and Support'. It is in the menu at the top of this website.

      Thank you

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  27. Hello again, he is not a man that is easy to please, or easily content with himself, therefore it takes him a little bit longer to find his own contentment but he will gradually move towards new aspects that will engage him beneficially.

    He is definitely in the right place now, which is the right environment for him, and therefore will move him into his own happiness again. It not your fault in any way! He has his own journey to explore and therefore is very busy and certainly doesn’t hold anything against you.

    Keep your loving thoughts for him flowing; it will help him; for love is powerful. I encourage you to explore also new avenues for yourself, if you can, and that will help you also to find contentment for yourself again. I know that is hard but you both have a lot to explore and all is well and in the end will so appear; happiness will be part of both your experience again.

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    1. Thank you so much, yes he is a hard man to please haha, is he with his mother? Has he passed over? I just want him to find happiness and contentment. when he was dying he didn't seem ready to accept it and was very scared, I don't want him to be frightened, can you tell him I love him and that my kids talk about him all the time they love him xxx

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    2. I do hope that you will continue to try the method given in the article, so you can tell him whatever you want to any a time that suits you. He does however, know from being around all of you, how you feel about him.

      I have been inundated with questions about loved ones who have died on facebook, so I have now set up a page where you can send me a donation first, and then ask your question. I have explained more on the new page. So I am sorry, I will no longer be answering questions posted on this page, however feel free to share your experiences here. If you do have any questions for me, please visit that page: 'Personal Advice and Support'. It is in the menu at the top of this website.

      Thank you

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  28. My husband died dec 28 2012 of a horrific cancer, it slowly took him from me over past 9 months. We were married 27 wonderful years and he was my soul mate. I held his hand as he passed, he fought not to leave me but is a strong believer of Jesus. I want to know he is ok. I love him so.

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    1. Yes, your dear soul mate is indeed ok. He is happy that he has found health again and is currently quite elated being in the company of Jesus. He will stay in this elated state for quite a long time but will reach out to you when he has re-oriented himself in his new non-physical state. It is the right things for him to do, for it will strengthen his soul having gone through this horrific period.

      You are a very patient, kind and loving person and carry a wonderful wisdom about life with you and that helps you with the grief and acceptance of him having a different path for now. You will meet again when the time is right and have still a lot you will explore together in future times.

      Hope this will be of re-assurance to you.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  29. For those of you who are on facebook, we are pleased to announce that we have now set up a new facebook page, ‘Communicating with the inner dimensions’.

    On this page we offer you more spiritual support and healing through information about, and communication with, the spirit world of angels, spirit friends, loved ones who have died, animals, nature spirits and all others from those realms.

    We are also looking forward to hearing about your experiences with non-physical beings on that page.

    There is now a link to our new facebook page in this article.

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  30. My boyfriend/fiance passed away Tues.Jan.15 2013
    There was a lot going on with in him and within our home. I love him so much. Sometime I don’t even want to be here I just want to be where ever he is. I try my best to pray and try and speak to him but then I start developing add/adhd and I can’t focus. I feel that if I don’t stay connected or I don’t feel him he will move on away from me. I’m afraid he won’t love me anymore, the way we loved each other here. In love. I feel that there is still life and growth after our physical/human life. I love this man so much I just want to be able to continue to keep alive what we have. He would always tell me that he felt we were so much more& our connection wasn't just the normal. I know how spiritually connected he is and I was only beginning to tap into it. I know that I prayed for the person he is and we came into each others life….. Anyways
    I just want to know how to communicate with him to know if our love is there.Does he still love me. I’ve had people say encouraging words as most people do anyways but one thing that gave me hope was. > He’s there building and getting things ready for when you get there.< But what else are "normal" people to say... its not really them who are going to help its knowing he is okay. its talking to him. It is just hard for me to feel him really feel him im especially worried because the day he passed i have not been back to our'home'to 'live' i don't know if he is there most of the time or here where i am at. i think of him talk to him and TRY to dream but maybe im hurting so much or so emotional right now i cant let him show his self or im over looking.... ive tried a a couple strategies but...
    Can you help me (connect)?
    Please contact me.

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      We have answered your message on facebook

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  31. My self Arti parekh, lost my mother in 2011. Then i read a book "The laws of sprituail world " I Love my mom very much.I am very close to her.The author suggested that you do not direct contect with your lost one.I am her daughter.please help me to communicate with my mom.and give me right massage.Tell me now is she happy there?does she want to talk with us?what she think about their family.what she feel there?what massage she wants to give to her daughter.

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  32. Hi Arti

    I would like to help you with your concerns.

    I have a page where you can send me a donation in order to have your personal question answered. You will find it in the menu at the top of the blog, or follow the link in this article you have commented on. It is called 'Personal Help and Support'.

    Looking forward to helping you

    Blessings

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  33. Respected Sir/Madam,
    I, Arti Parekh, wrote a message to you on March 10, 2013. I got your reply too. I really thank you for spending time to reply me. I read your Personal Help & Support page. You suggested donation for communication to my lost loved mother. I really wish to communicate with her as she spent her whole life for me & my family. She sacrified a lot for us.
    Sir/Madam, how much should we donate to get your service? Please help me to contact with my mother. You can send email to my brother at : ashishmehta_81@yahoo.com
    Waiting for your reply....

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    1. Dear Arti

      I work by donation so that anyone, even poor people, can receive help and pay what they can manage. There is no set charge; however I appreciate if you are aware that answering even just one question can take as much as half an hour of my time. Perhaps you could donate what your own time and efforts would be worth to you and what you would appreciate someone paying you if you were to help them.

      Looking forward to helping you

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  34. Hi,
    a friend who had gotten my husbamd and i together 8 1/2 years ago. Passed away in our home from an overdose.. I cant believe it. It happend almost 6 months ago he passed 10-04-2012. I find myself feeling blame on me. Like i couldve stopped it. My husbamd is the one who was performing cpr. Ive felt this feeling of terrible grief. I just wanna hear his voice or know if i couldve stopped it. Is he mad at me?? Did he suffer.. Is he ok?? Does he know we were so presistant??? I dont know but, we are being blamed by the family.. I just wany answers.. Please SOMEONE JUST HELP ME.

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  35. I would like to help you with your concerns.

    I have a page where you can send me a donation in order to have your personal question answered. You will find it in the menu at the top of the blog, or follow the link in this article you have commented on. It is called 'Personal Help and Support'.

    Looking forward to helping you

    Blessings

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  36. hii i lost my love in an accdnt n m anable to cntrl myslf.. i wana communicate with him?bt how? could u plz help me out?

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    1. I would like to help you with your concerns.

      I have a page where you can send me a donation in order to have your personal question answered. You will find it in the menu at the top of the blog, or follow the link in this article you have commented on. It is called 'Personal Help and Support'.

      Looking forward to helping you

      Blessings

      AK

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  37. My son passed away on March 17th 2013, 14 days after his 25th birthday. I miss him so much. I try everyday to contact him. I just want to hear him say "I love you Momma" one more time. I was on the phone with his girlfriend at the exact moment he took his own life. I did not hear a shotgun go off and need him to help me see what really happened..

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    1. I would like to help you with your concerns.

      I have a page where you can send me a donation in order to have your personal question answered. You will find it in the menu at the top of the blog, or follow the link in this article you have commented on. It is called 'Personal Help and Support'.

      Looking forward to helping you

      Blessings

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  38. Hi I am 14 and I just lost my cousin in a very bad accedent and he was 16 he was the closet thing to my heart and he is like a brother to me and sometimes I can here him talking to me I don't know how to responed I lost him 3 days ago Please help me

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    1. I am very sorry to hear of this tragedy. I would like to help you with your concerns.

      I have a page where you can send me a donation in order to have your personal question answered. You will find it in the menu at the top of the blog, or follow the link in this article you have commented on. It is called 'Personal Help and Support'.

      Looking forward to helping you

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  39. I lost my brother in dec 2012 the day he died that night it seemed like he came to me in my dream and he told me something and it came true but I feel there is something else he is tryin to tell me I live in the trailer he use to live in and I get a feelin his wantin to tell me something else like he has something hide and wants me to find it like his tryin to tell me were its at but I cant seem to find anything is there away to find out what his tryin to tell me or if there is something his tryin to tell me iv tried talkin to him but nothing but I took a camara and went around the place he lived and took pictures and one picture I took it looks just like my brother in a mirror and like a week latter I took another picture and it looks like a woman in the mirror in that picture and I don't know who that could be so is there anyway I could find out what my brother is tryin to tell me?

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    1. We are sorry you lost your brother, it is always hard when someone important to you dies. We suggest you try the method given in the article to communicate with him. You may need to be patient, as it can take time to set up a satisfactory and reliable communication, but when you want to know something, as you do, it is worth persisting

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  40. Hello,
    I lost my cousin just today actually but he was more my best friend/brother then my cousin. He and I were very very close, he was killed in a car accident this morning just hours ago, and it is just killing me. I was wondering if it is too early to try communication.? Would it confuse him as he is likely still adjusting.? Thrown into a whole new world so quickly, I just really nees to speak with him so bad. Last time we talked we made up to eachother about a huge fight we had, in text messages we had large amounts of anger toward eachother for 8 months and made up a week ago briefly. I just wanna talk to him, tell him how sorry I am...

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    1. We are very sorry for your pain. What a tragic way to lose someone you love so much. You can certainly try to communicate with him right away. When you try, do tell him all the things you want to say, but remember to listen for his responses too. We wish you every success

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  41. My friend died 13 says ago ....An overdose in a bathroom stall in rehab ,,,,He was so good!!!! , he just turned 27..... Im worried about him how can I help him not be scared? im in florida he died in NYC july 3rd 2013.........can I still do an evp ? please help I must contact him he called me several times and texted me 3 days prior......I was so consumed with life that I never got back to him in time! I have his voicemails he just left me ....they also come via text voicemails......theres some message there he left for me I need a way to know hes okay!!!!!

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    1. I am sorry for your loss and I would like to help you with your concerns.

      I have a page where you can send me a donation in order to have your personal question answered. You will find it in the menu at the top of the blog, or follow the link in this article you have commented on. It is called 'Personal Help and Support'.

      Looking forward to helping you

      Blessings

      AK

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  42. Hey! I am 15 years old, about to turn 16 in November. I lost my grandfather when i was about 12, and since then i have been going a little more and more down hill. He died from cancer, which he most likely got from smoking cigarettes. Since he died, I have gotten addicted to cigarrettes, i've drank, taken pills, ect. The normal crazy teenager things. I am now only smoking cigarettes, but feel extremely guilty and all i want to do is talk to him about it. Growing up, he was one of my best friends and i feel he is extremely dissapointed, especially how when he was in the hospital i didn't say goodbye, i was too weak. all i need is to talk to him but i don't quite remember his voice, smell, and i can barely remember what he looks like. would it help if i set up a couple pictures of him in the opposite chair, and maybe a few candles? i'm clueless and really desperate for my pop pop to know i love him so much and although he was a sweet sweet guy, some reassurance that he does not hate me. thank you so much !

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    1. We are sorry for your loss. Your grandfather was so important to you that of course you miss him badly. If you set up one photo of him on the opposite chair to help you remember him well, that will be good, but several photos would be distracting, and so would candles

      We wish you every success

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  43. A month ago I lost my boyfriend, who was also my best friend, tragically in an auto accident. Prior to his death we got into an argument, and that is the last communication we had with one another. I feel so much guilt and sadness because I never got to say goodbye or tell him that I love him. I dont want him to think that he isn't the love of my life since we fought right before he died. I've tried everything I can to try and communicate with him since he's passed, but its not working. Is he not wanting to communicate, or am I doing something wrong? I really want to know he's ok and that he knows how much I live him.

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    1. We are always so sorry when people like you tell us of the tragedies which take their loved ones from them.

      Sometimes when people die in such circumstances, they are in a state of shock for some time, and then it can be difficult to communicate with them. However it is still worthwhile to try, and to tell your boyfriend how much you love him, just as much as it would be if he were in a coma in hospital. The love of their friends and family is always supportive to those who have passed over. In time, your boyfriend will most likely start responding to your efforts to communicate with him

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  44. When I tried to contact, I just started shaking, is this a bad sign or ?

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    1. Often when people are receiving psychic information, they experience something we call the 'psychic shivers'. What you experienced is a strong version of this and shows there is a lot of incoming information, and/or a very strong desire by someone to communicate with you. So you were doing well.

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  45. My late boyfriend died of lukiemia and i loved him very much i need to talk to him and make sure hes not mad at me for getting married
    idk how to talk to him i really need help i didnt get to say good bye

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    1. We are sorry to hear of your concerns, Morgon, and find them perfectly understandable. We offered the method for communicating given on this page for people like you, and hope you will try it. Alternatively, you could ask your friends to recommend a good medium in your city, and visit them with your questions. It would be good for you to put your mind to rest before you get married.

      If you try the method given here, we wish you every success

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  46. My Mother passed away in 2007, I just want know that she is Happy and with my Poppers and my brothersnks
    thanks

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    1. We offered the method for communicating given on this page for people like you, and hope you will try it. Alternatively, you could ask your friends to recommend a good medium in your city, and visit them with your questions.

      If you try the method given here, we wish you every success

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  47. I too lost my best friend/soulmate last year to leukemia. I was with him when he passed and I am truly grateful for that. I have contact with his spirit since the day of his passing which continues still. Some signs are obvious and some are not. i have dreamed about him just once. However on the night of Easter Sunday I not only saw him but also touched his hand. This gives me peace knowing he is ok.

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    1. Thank you for sharing this. We hope your experiences will encourage others to notice signs and try to contact their loved ones in spirit

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  48. Hi there, recently a good friend of mine died and i had talked to him a few days before and he seemed fine, it was un expected and im still in shock and i cant beileve it happened. He ment alot to me and i loved him very much and i cant stop thinking about him. We use to be together and i just need to talk to him but i dont know how. Ive tryed asking for a sign to see if hes still here with me but nothing. Please help

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    1. It is always hard to lose someone you love. You have our sympathy.

      We offered the method for communicating given on this page for people like you, and hope you will try it. You might need to be patient, because your friend is also busy trying to understand his sudden passing. So just make a habit of sitting down and trying to communicate on a regular basis until he responds.

      Alternatively, you could ask your friends to recommend a good medium in your city, and visit them with your questions.

      If you try the method given here, we wish you every success

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  49. I never met my real , biological father but I do belive he is dead if he is how would I contact him

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    1. You could certainly try the method given on this page, even if he is still alive.

      You don't know how he looks, so the image you create will be your best guess, however if he responds, he will be able to change the image to one that more closely resembles him.

      We wish you every success with your efforts to contact him

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  50. my boyfriend past 4 weeks ago, and I am so lost with out him. I want to feel him hear him. talk to him just tell him I love him and how much I want to leave with him.

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    1. We understand your terrible pain from your loss. We very much hope you have loving supportive people around you to help you carry on. Life will never be the same, but it will be worthwhile, as you learn to live with your grief. If you struggle to come to terms with your loss, it would be very worthwhile to seek out grief counselling in your city.

      The method we have given will, if you try it, help you connect with your boyfriend and talk to him. Also look for him in your dreams. Tell yourself before you go to sleep that you will be with him in your dreams. In dreams you can hold him again, and that will help ease your pain.

      Hang on in there and spend time with other people you care about, and enjoy their company, as much as you can. And please talk to someone about your desire to leave with him, so they can comfort and support you to carry on.

      Blessings

      The Spiritual Teachers

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  51. Hi,

    I have lost someone I care a big deal about, my best friend, but were not related so am I still abel to communicate with her?

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    1. We are sorry for your loss.

      The method we have given is for you to communicate with anyone you care about, so please try it, and we wish you every success

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  52. my dad passed away 3 years ago on May 12th and im 15 years old right now, and i miss him dearly and its really hard to believe that he is gone, i wish he could come back but anytime i try to communicate with him, i usually just say "hey dad" or i pray and ask him to sometimes help me in some ways but the way he responds he doesnt do anything and when he does respond its not a way of talking its more of him scaring me because i feel like at night he can just show himself like his spirit and it scares me!

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    2. We are very sorry to hear that you lost your dad. It's a hard time for you.

      What a shame you feel scared at night. We suggest that you say to your dad, over and over, "hey dad, don't visit me at night, but only in the daytime." We are sure he will understand that you will feel better about daytime visits.

      The method given in this post is a nicely controlled way of trying to communicate, so it's worth a try for you. You won't need to feel scared if you talk to your dad when you choose to, and wait for his response.

      Do you know that you have a Guardian Angel looking after you? Any time you feel scared, reach out to your Guardian Angel and ask him for protection. You can even use the same method to talk to your Guardian Angel.

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  53. I lost my dad when i was 6 yrs. I want to communicate with him. How can i do it?

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    1. We have given a method of communication which was written for people just like you, in the post on this page.

      Do try it, we wish you every success

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  54. My baby passed away at 2 days old how do I connect with him?

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    1. We send you our sympathy for your loss. We understand the terrible grief parents feel when they lose a baby.

      Are you on facebook? We have seen many pages there in which parents who have lost their child connect with each other and share their experiences, and find great solace and support from each other.

      Your baby is an ageless personality who so briefly appeared in our world. If you try the method given here in this post with that in mind, you can begin by reaching out to the baby you held, and allow that ageless personality to change the image of the baby to another one, expressing the personality he would have had if he had lived longer. He may appear as a child or even as an adult, but there will be a recognisable connection between the image he shows you, and the baby you held. Then you can communicate with him, and share the love you have for each other.

      We wish you every success

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  55. My best friend/strength/confidence (my nana) left me on december 13th right before Christmas. She has 6 kids. 16 grand kids and 4 great grand children. She was everyones rock through every high and low. I love and miss her every single day. She showed me the meaning of true love my whole 24 years of living. Her death was unexpected. Christmas wasnt the same without her. I regret not going to visit her more than i did. I love her more than anything and anyone. She was only 76 years old and was always healthy she passed away a week after open heart surgery. Im not sure if shes been trying to contact me but since shes been gone ive had a few scary dreams about her. One where i woke up terrified. Why?? The light in the bathroom has turned on and off while my younger brother was showering. The sink turned on by itself the second i said her name out loud a day after the light incident. Are these indeed signs from her? If it isnt too much to ask can you contact her for me. Any feedback would be so wonderful. She was really an angel on earth and i miss her. I tell her that everyday

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    1. It is very distressing to lose someone you love so much so suddenly. We send you our sympathy.

      A sudden death like this can arouse fears of dying suddenly yourself, causing the scary dreams, but there is no need for you to worry, you have a long life ahead of you.

      We don’t give psychic readings but we have explained the method of communication in this post just for people like you, and we encourage you to try it. We wish you every success

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  56. Have you ever heard of astral projection ??

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    1. Yes, indeed we have Kayne. Have you been experiencing it?

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  57. Hello,
    My Mom Carmela passed away very suddenly on New Years Day, and it has been devastating to me. We talked every day and she moved down here to be close to me and her two grandchildren. She loved them so dearly, and it was them that gave her a sense of purpose. I miss her with every waking moment on my life, I can't go a minute without thinking of our Nammie. She was pretty ill with various ailments so I am glad that she is no longer in pain. But I just want to see her, kiss her, laugh with her. I think I got some signs when she first passed, and so did my husband and Dad. I haven't gotten anything in over two weeks. I talk to her every day and try to visualize, meditate...anything to get her to come to me. I know she has to be around us, she loved us more than anything in the world. I just need to figure out the best way to communicate with her. Do you have any suggestions? Can you feel anything or connect with her as you read this? I just want to know she is still with me. I know I don't need to worry about her, that she is fine. I miss her and love her so much, I am so heartbroken.
    Thank you,
    Julia

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    1. Your mother is still with you, Julia, and we suggest you try the method of communication given in this post. We wrote it for people just like you, and wish you every success with it.

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  58. My dad passed away in 2007. Still struggling with it. I used to see him from time to time or dream of him. Since his passing i have had two children that i wish he met. This makes it harder for me. The last dream i had of him he seemed bothered by me and said i shouldnt be "here" wherever here was. That was about four years ago. I feel i have disappointed him and has no desire to communicate with me. Ive tried but nothing. Is there any way to communicate? Thanks and sorry to bother you

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    1. How sad for you that your efforts to communicate are going nowhere. We wrote the method given in this post so that people could talk to their loved ones themselves, but it always takes two, doesn't it. We suggest that instead you try to communicate with another family member who has passed on and knows your father well, to find out how your father is doing, using the method given.

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  59. Hi. My dad passed away in 2007. I used to dream or see him from time to time. Just a glimpse of his face like a flash. Now nothing. Ive tried everything i know to talk to him but nothing. The last time i dreamt of him was about 4 yrs ago. He seemed annoyed with me like he didnt want me there and even said something like i shouldnt be here or i couldbt stay. Wish i could remember but that was it. Nothing since then. Ive begged, imagined and just talked and cried and still nothing. I have since had two children that he obv is not here for and wish just for a sign or that he could let me know hes seen them and if ive disappointed him or something im some way. It hurts so bad because he was my world. He was just the most giving amazing smartest man i knew.

    Thanks and sorry to bother you

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  60. 35 years ago, when I was young, I met a girl. She was a college student with aspirations and I was a high school graduate with a lousy full time job. I fell in love with her, and I know that she cared for me. But I knew in my heart that she was out of my league because our paths were so different. Then for an unknown reason, we became negative to one another and I never saw her again. I always regretted not swallowing my pride and removing the negativity. But at the time I felt it was hopeless. I took to heart her academics and aspirations. Years later, I swallowed my pride and found a way to enter and get through college myself - eventually with two masters degrees. With the internet, I was eventually able to discover parts of the country she had lived in. But the closest I ever was to finding her current location was when I found her obituary 30 years after I had last seen her. It probably seems crazy, but I can't describe how deeply I miss her. I've had a few dreams since that she was in, only one of which I can remember any details. She was on her way somewhere with another girl. But she stopped to sit and chat with me for a moment. All I was able to say to her before i awoke was "I've missed you so much". It was such a relief. But when I awoke, I wondered if my relief was my own imagination. Could it really have been her? When people leave our world, do they get to learn the true feelings of those they've left behind?

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    1. You have shared such a touching story. True love knows no boundaries, and when it is not fulfilled in one life, it looks for fulfilment in another life, so your love has a future.

      In dreams we can visit the environments in which those who have passed on, now live, and have very real meetings with them, so your dreams are of real moments spent with your love. And yes, when people pass on, they learn a very great deal about the true feelings of those they have left behind.

      We would like to encourage you to try the method of communication given in this post, so you can spend more time with your loved one.

      Blessings
      The Spiritual Teachers

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  61. Hi,
    I was just wondering through sites to see how communicate with spirits as my mum had a miscarriage with my twin sister (I was born 3 months early but she only miscarriaged with my sister two months before I was born) my mum said when I was younger I could connect with my sister talking to her and could visibly see her, my memory of them events is quite blurry, I do feel like a part of me is missing and I have a lot of love for her, do you believe that I could ever connect to her properly again?

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    1. Hi Leah

      We would like to encourage you to try the method of communication given in this post to reach out to your twin sister, and we anticipate that you will be successful since you have such a strong loving bond with her.

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  62. My dad past away 3 weeks ago and I try to communicate with him but it dont work what should I do

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    1. Have you tried the method given in this post? It was written just for people like you. Sometimes it can be a bit harder to communicate when you are not able to be calm, or if the person who passed away has a lot to do to come to terms with their passing, so sometimes you need to be patient and just keep trying every day until it works.

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  63. Hi there, my mom passed away almost two weeks ago. I was with her in the hospital almost everyday. It was unexpected and didn't know how bad off she was. I held her hand as she took her last breath, and felt her spirit go though me. I also was in the room alone when she was already passed away and I felt her and my dad who also passed away giving me a big hug. I have been asking myself why she had to go so soon. I feel her everywhere, smell her perfume she put on when she was alive (sometimes the smell is overpowering) she plays with my almost 3 month old at 2am every night for at least 30mins. My baby will be laughing and cooing away. I have been since-ing that she wants to tell me something like she has a message for me that's very important. I also feel that she wants me to find something that was hers. Maybe hidden away? I need you help and it is very well appreciated.

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    1. Hi Christina

      What a wonderful connection you have with your mother already.

      I am sorry, we don't give psychic readings, however we offer the method given in this post to help people like you with their communications with their loved ones in spirit. Give it a try! :) With your mother it will most likely work extremely well.

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  64. Tomorrow will be a month since I lost my beautiful husband. We shared 24 years together, and two children. He had been sick, but neither one of us would allow ourselves to believe for one minute that he wouldn't make it. Then in a snap he was gone. I had to make a choice, one that has haunted me since. In my heart I believe he was gone before I made that choice that I didn't want to make. Though at the time I believed it to be the only and right thing to do, I now second guess that decision. I have felt him around me, though it has been a couple weeks since that last feeling. Why would I feel him so much right after his death, but then suddenly he is gone.
    I also grew up with a step-dad who was a medium and I have never been doubtful in my beliefs of spiritualism, reincarnation, etc., but since my husband died, I doubt every thought I ever had. I miss him so much and I do talk to him. I tell him how loved he is, I encourage our kids to talk to him too and they do. I tell them he is around us and needs our words of love just as much as he did in life. How can I ever get over the feeling that I caused my husbands death? That the choice I made was wrong? I am tormented daily by it, even though another part of me feels he was gone before that decision was made. Can I keep a relationship with him despite the lack of his physical body? Does he still love us? Does he still feel our love? So much I need to know. I will also try the method you have posted here. As I said, I talk to him all the time and I had a couple weeks of contact, but now it is gone. Thank you for this site also. I am going to read through it all in hopes that I too can learn to communicate with my lost love.

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    1. We understand how much you are suffering, and your grief is still so fresh and very painful.

      Love and relationships do continue beyond death, so you can be reassured about this.

      Many people experience guilt when a loved one dies. We suggest you ask for healing for this terrible feeling. If you look in the main menu of this blog, you will find our page: 'Free Spiritual Healing'.

      Also, keep trying the method given to help you communicate with your husband. We wish you every success,

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  65. I don't know that I will ever get through this loss. I have been away from home for a week and will return tomorrow. My children are both anxious and nervous about going home to a house that doesn't feel like home anymore. Our pillar is gone and a lifetime is a long time without him. We try to smile and enjoy life, but how can we when the pain is so dense? We miss his smile, his laugh, even him getting after the kids. They would give anything for dad to yell at them one more time. Nothing holds the same meaning anymore. Without him, things seem irrelavent. No one will love my children the way we did. No one will revel in their lives, their successes, even their smiles. No one can share my life the way he shared it with me, watching each other grow as a couple and as individuals. Loving each other all the way through despite our faults. I never thought I would lose him and now I have, and I have lost myself right along with him.

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    1. It is very hard to try to cope with immense grief on your own, so we hope you have already found grief support in your community. If not, then please go looking for a support group.

      There is no point at this stage, trying to smile through the tears, instead if you allow your pain to be fully expressed, your feelings will eventually change of their own accord.

      We hope that you will also be able to communicate with your very much loved partner, however if that is too difficult for you at the moment, you might find some comfort in visiting a medium in your city, perhaps your friends can recommend someone

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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  66. How does a spouse passed on feel about their living partner moving on in a romantic relationship? How does that work at the end of life when a twice married twice widowed person dies and meets their two husbands? Do they see and hear everything that their living partner is doing? I have a friend who lost her husband 9 months ago and she feels strange about entering into a new romantic/sexual relationship. Hope this isn't too silly to ask.

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    1. This is a very good question.

      As with all relationships, there are a range of responses from the loved one who has passed on, because we are all so unique. Most , however, do understand that their partner needs to have company in their life, and some even encourage a new relationship.

      They are usually too busy with their life between lives to watch everything their partner does, but instead communicate and visit like any other relative who lives elsewhere.

      At the end of life, the twice widowed person will have a greater longing to see one of their partners than the other, so will spend more time with them, however all love relationships are forever, so in the life between lives, we also meet loves from other lives. Our souls are so expansive that we can, when we are ready to do so, take more than one image of ourselves, to spend time with several loved ones simultaneously.

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      The Spiritual Teachers

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